If you thought your ex was dramatic, TikToker Carly (@c_jeanann) has a story that’ll blow yours out of the water. Her 22-year-old brother dated a 35-year-old woman for two and a half months, and his now ex-girlfriend has been stalking/harassing him and his family for seven months.
She won’t stop sending them packages. The first package was addressed to her brother and was labeled as fragile. It turned out to be a box of live cockroaches.
According to Carly, it costs about $150 to mail a package filled with live insects to someone, but that’s what her brother’s psycho ex-girlfriend did.
The second piece of mail from her was a letter that she wrote with the help of AI. The letter stated that they had a month to give her some money back. It was just a bunch of nonsense.
Throughout all this, she had been texting their family group chat. The crazy ex sent yet another package containing a shirt for Carly’s mom.
The shirt read, “This mom loves her gay son.” The latest gift they received from her was a bumper sticker. In another video, Carly read all the text messages that this woman had sent to them.
“On July 1st at 11:04 p.m., we got this big spiel in our family group chat about how my brother owes her $3,000, how he didn’t stay by her side in one of the worst times of her life,” Carly read.
“He’s not a man. He’s a little boy who needs guidance. If no one sends me $3,000 in the next few days, she will proceed with pressing charges.”
After that, Carly’s dad responded, saying, “I’m sorry that my son hurt you. I didn’t agree with your relationship since the age gap was so shocking. I am happy that you two have decided to take different paths in life and are not together anymore. So, you’ll understand that any further communication will be considered harassment and not tolerated.”

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Everyone in the group chat responded, agreeing with the message. But then, they received another text on July 13th at 8:39 p.m. The ex-girlfriend threatened to “make everything worse” until someone paid her back the money that was owed.
She also accused Carly’s brother of being a scam artist and using her for money. At this time, Carly and her family were on vacation in Puerto Rico.
Carly’s sister called her out, saying that she was too old for this erratic behavior. Still, the ex-girlfriend didn’t seem to take the glaringly obvious hint.
Many TikTok users expressed concern for Carly and her family. They also pointed out that the age difference between the woman and Carly’s brother was inappropriate.
“35 dating a 22-year-old is the first red flag, and it’s not a red flag for him but for her,” commented one user.
“She’s spending money to do this. As a 34-year-old, I could never. I also wouldn’t date someone who was even 30,” stated another.
“I’m a 34-year-old who goes to college with kids in their early twenties. I can’t fathom an age difference like that in a relationship,” wrote a third.