Not all red flags are visible at the start of a relationship, and sometimes the person you trusted most turns out to be someone you never really knew at all, a person capable of horribly violating things.
Back when Paige Davis, who goes by @paigedav91 on TikTok, was 26, she was in a relationship with a man who was 20 years older than her.
He was also the host of a primetime show on network television, and she got to travel the world with him as he filmed for his TV show.
To celebrate her 27th birthday, Paige’s boyfriend threw a white party at his house for her. There were over 100 guests in attendance, Paige’s dad flew in to attend the event, and she says it was one of the most amazing memories of her life.
Two weeks later, Paige’s boyfriend dumped her over FaceTime with an absolutely atrocious excuse. She was sad about it, of course, but she had no choice but to move on. It’s not like she could argue with him to stay with her.
Six months later, Paige saw that he was in a new relationship, as he was posting this girl all over his social media profiles. Paige found it bizarre, as he had told her he would never share things about her publicly like that. So what made this girl so much more special?
Several weeks later, this girl slid into Paige’s DMs, and she had stalked this girl a bit online, as anyone who was hurt by their ex does, so she knew who she was. This girl asked Paige if she knew her ex-boyfriend, and Paige confirmed that she did.
This girl then asked Paige for her phone number and spent four hours on the phone with her!
Paige and this girl pieced together that Paige’s ex-boyfriend had been two-timing them and cheating with Paige throughout the entire duration of their relationship. Not only that, but Paige’s ex was on several dating apps and chatting with tons of girls.
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“And actually, that’s not the worst part; the worst part is that the reason why she’s calling you is because she’s being a girl’s girl and she’s letting you know that she found videos of you, in his computer, taken without your consent, very clearly without your consent,” Paige explained in her video.
Paige was humiliated to have to go to her parents and let them know about the videos because she didn’t know if they would get leaked or not.
To this day, Paige is still triggered and finds it traumatic when she goes to someone’s house and sees cameras in there. It’s not like she can tell people why she’s so traumatized, as that would let her secret out.
By Bre Avery Zacharski
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