This 25-year-old girl has a boyfriend a year older than she is, and they have been dating for around a year now.
She honestly says that she believes their relationship was almost perfect. Her boyfriend has always treated her wonderfully, and he never showed her any red flags or toxic traits that she thinks a lot of guys her age possess.
They did move in together very recently after talking about it a lot beforehand, and her boyfriend just finished helping her unpack yesterday.
He did end up moving 4 hours across their state to be with her in their new place.
Last night, she was sitting down, about to watch TV with him, when she noticed a text message come up on her boyfriend’s phone.
She never before had felt as if she should dig around, but because the message said something like “I miss you,” she knew she had to snoop.
She excused herself to go to the bathroom, and she attempted to calm down before coming to speak to him.
When she did come out of the bathroom, she just asked her boyfriend to hand over his phone. He did, and then she saw the messages between her boyfriend and this other girl.
Her boyfriend was telling this girl that he also missed her and would get to see her tomorrow. It turns out that her boyfriend is heading to his mom and dad’s house this weekend to watch their dog, and he clearly had plans to meet up with this girl too.
She flipped out upon reading those messages, and her boyfriend tried to say this girl was only a friend of his and nothing more. But, when she got to see all of the messages he had deleted, she found out he cheated on her with this girl on the day they moved in together.
“However, upon going into recently deleted messages, I see 207 messages between Friday and Wednesday,” she explained.
“The messages were graphic and laid out completely what they did and how much he liked it. I went for a drive so I wouldn’t act out of anger and then came back to talk. He claimed knew her from high school, “it was one-time,”….and it was “a mistake.”
“I asked if anything was lacking in our relationship, and he said no, I’m perfect. He claims it was more of a “bachelor party” mindset in which he did it one time before “locking in and taking the next step with me.” I’d believe that if there weren’t 200+ messages and an “I’ll see you tomorrow.” I’m honestly sick. I feel disgusted. Betrayed. And honestly, stupid. I cannot afford this lease on my own but also have no room for a roommate.”
She packed her boyfriend’s stuff up and made him leave. He’s currently staying with his parents. She is stuck locked into this lease alone, and she has no idea where she should go from here.
Her boyfriend is asking her to give him a second chance, but she can’t see how she can ever move past him cheating on her on the day they decided to move in together. She believed her boyfriend was really the guy she was going to spend the rest of her life with.
What do you think, does he deserve another chance?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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