Dating rich men might come with weekends on the yacht, five-star dinners, and designer brand gifts, but it all comes at a price. In her video, TikToker Leah Fennelly (@leah_fennelly) is talking about all the red flags her wealthy ex exhibited while horseback riding.
Her wealthy ex used to tell her that he liked to make her cry. He also told her that if they ever had a child together and something went wrong during childbirth, he would save the child, not her, because wives are replaceable.
“For very wealthy men, they like having control, and saying things like that is trying to control the relationship. They like control over relationships, over money, over finances, over work, over everything, women included,” concluded Leah.
On the other hand, poor men can be controlling, too. Money is not the root of bad behavior, but it can amplify it.
Whether he drives a Bentley or takes the bus, it’s important that your partner sees you as an equal, not as a possession.
Based on personal experience, many TikTok users agreed that rich men often think they are better than others just because they have a lot of money.
The comments section is full of people sharing their experiences.
“I’ve never met a very rich person [who] didn’t see me as replaceable and only value me for what I could do for them. They’re raised in that culture, and even if they’re nice on the surface, it rears its ugly head eventually,” stated one user.

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“Super rich is another level. I have billionaire cousins in India. I remember when we were kids, my cousin rolled down the window and would randomly spit on people, laughing hysterically. When I asked him why he was doing that, he said, ‘Because they are poor.’ Never liked him afterward,” shared another.
“Dating rich men is a nightmare. They feel so superior and always try to put you down because most of them grew up entitled,” commented a third.
Obviously, not every rich man is a walking red flag in designer wear. Plenty of affluent partners are actually kind, generous, and respectful.
Leah’s story serves as a reminder that wealth is not always a one-way ticket to happiness.