Nicole, who goes by @scorpiomamash on TikTok, went on a date one night in Los Angeles. She was at a bar with a guy, and it was 9.m.
Feeling tired, she asked to wrap the date up. The guy had driven her there, so he was her ride home, and he said they needed to still go bar hopping, even though he never mentioned this to Nicole beforehand.
But the guy relented, and they walked out to his car. Nicole anticipated that he was going to be a gentleman, but he ended up going in the opposite direction.
“We spent an hour in his car, him just trying to convince me to go barhopping with him and stay out because it’s Friday night and it’s what we should be doing,” Nicole explained in her video.
“He starts touching my arm and saying, like, ‘Come on, I’m trying to get to know you more, more intimately.’ And I’m like, intimately? What are you trying to get into?”
Nicole made it clear to the guy that she wasn’t like that and was not looking for a hookup, and the guy responded that it was probably because she was religious before asking how long she waits before sleeping with a guy.
Nicole found it bizarre of him, and she was irritated. The car was turned off. She had been sitting there for an hour, thinking he would drive her back home.
Nicole sternly told this guy, who was still touching her, to get his hands off her and let her know if she should call an Uber instead.
The guy finally picked up on how angry Nicole was and started to drive. They were on the freeway when the guy said he was hoping Nicole wasn’t mad at him and wanted to know if she viewed him in a different light due to their chat.
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Nicole was desperate to get home at that rate and block the guy, who pressed her once more on whether she saw him differently for what he had tried to pull on her.
He then speculated that Nicole was afraid he would refuse to drive her home if she answered his question. Nicole was done with his games and still wouldn’t reply.
Nicole got home in one piece, blocked him the following day, and thought that would be the end of him.
“And then he sent me a big old bouquet of roses…[with a note] just saying, like I’m sorry, that was so immature of me, please give me another chance, no pressure,” Nicole continued.
“This is exactly why I used to just meet people at the place that we’re supposed to go to for a date instead of them picking me up,” one person commented on Nicole’s video.
“First red flag, ladies, a man mentioning bar hopping,” someone else said.
“I would’ve got out of that car so fast,” a third person added.
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