His Girlfriend Is Getting Paid $1,000 A Month To Get Dinner And Cuddle With A Guy, Yet She Completely Lied To Him About This
A 29-year-old man is dating a 25-year-old woman, and earlier this year his girlfriend brought up an interesting topic.
She confessed to him that she previously got paid by guys to do things like go to dinner with them, go shopping, or go out to a movie. Basically, she was a friend to them.
She then wanted to know if he would be alright with her resuming that for money, and he said he actually was, so long as they stuck to some “rules.”
His first rule for his girlfriend was that she had to be honest with these guys that she already had a boyfriend so they knew there was no chance of a relationship.
His second rule was that she could not hold their hands, agree to hang out at their houses, cuddle with them, kiss them, or really do anything that involved any form of touch.
His third and final rule was that she needed to make it absolutely clear to these guys that she was their friend and nothing more, which kind of ties into his first rule but really spells things out in no uncertain terms.
“They could do whatever they wanted as long as it was in a public space and the above was followed,” he explained.
“Literally just Rent-A-Friend type stuff. She agreed it was reasonable. I asked a couple of weeks later about it and she said it was too much work and wasn’t going to do it. That’s fine too.”
One evening a few weeks ago, he was playing a game with his girlfriend and they had to use both of their phones to play it.
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His girlfriend then fell asleep in the middle of their game, so he picked up her phone, logged her out of the game, and plugged it in.
As he was doing this, he noticed that his girlfriend had a message pop up from a number that she did not have saved on her phone.
“It’s a picture of some food and the person asking if my GF wanted some,” he said. “This is where I shouldn’t have done what I did, but I’ve been hurt a lot before and people in my past always hid messages, etc. from me and it turned out to always be bad, and I opened the messages.”
He could clearly see that this guy had invited his girlfriend to hang out a week earlier, yet she declined, saying it wasn’t going to work.
He knew his girlfriend said no because they hung out like every day that week. He then began scrolling back through the messages and read them all.
“They started in February, and within the first 15 messages it went from heys to him agreeing to give her $1000/month, to dinner, to him saying “I like cuddling with you” and her saying “oh yeah?”
He was devastated, and at the same time, he felt awful for looking at her phone in the first place. When she woke up, he asked her about the anonymous number and she claimed the guy was a friend she had years before meeting him.
His girlfriend continued to downplay everything, saying the guy doesn’t even live near them and she really doesn’t speak to him a lot.
Now, he pretended that he never read the messages, and he asked his girlfriend if she would show them to him.
His girlfriend refused to let him look at the messages, and she obviously lied to him big time here. He kept talking to her about this anonymous number, and eventually, he just told her that he already knew what the messages between them said.
Given that he is in love with her, he forgave her and re-read his list of rules to her, to which his girlfriend said that she would follow them next time.
A couple of weeks later, he used his girlfriend’s phone to get directions somewhere and saw that she deleted the app she was using to talk to that guy.
He thought to himself that his girlfriend had to be trying hard to respect his boundaries, and took it as a good sign.
Two nights ago, he was returning an item that his girlfriend bought for him yet he wasn’t sure the return was completed properly.
He logged into his girlfriend’s phone to check her account to make sure she got the refund, and he then noticed in her bank history a guy was sending her $1,000 a month.
The latest deposit his girlfriend had gotten from this guy was 3 days earlier, which means that sadly, his girlfriend has kept lying to him.
“I’m not perfect,” he continued. “I shouldn’t have snooped in the beginning, and I didn’t intend to later. But I need help. What do I do?”
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