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Her grandma mentioned to her that she was invited to the family reunion, but Ava and Brian are going to be excluded.
She stopped to question her grandma about why they could not come, as her cousins and her sister’s kids were invited.
“She told me that she wasn’t going to allow me to “parade my excuse of a family around,” she explained.
“She said that is “shameful to the family that I had a baby out of wedlock.” She also told me that she didn’t even want to invite me because my being there is almost just as bad since everyone knows what a “disgrace” I am but my dad would’ve pitched a fit if she invited my sister and not me.”
“I told her I wasn’t ashamed of Ava and she shouldn’t be either. She told me that my “mistake” means my family will be judged.”
She was left seeing red after that conversation, and she was so upset that her grandma’s words make her shake.
She informed her grandma that if she was so embarrassed by her and Ava, she no longer would let her grandma spend time with her daughter.
She will be staying home during the family reunion, and she will also be turning down invitations to any gatherings in the future that she knows her grandma will go to.
“I am furious. She doesn’t have to agree with my choices but to call my daughter a mistake…is crossing a huge line,” she said.
“Besides if she truly feels this way what’s the harm in not seeing us. I don’t her to ever have the chance to call Ava these things in front of her. I want her to grow up knowing that she might be unplanned she is very loved.”
Her grandma is livid with her no longer wanting to come to the reunion, and some of her other family members are upset with her too.
