Now That Her Cousin Is Having A Baby With The Guy She Almost Got Engaged To, She’s Planning On Giving Her Family An Ultimatum That Will Rip Them All Apart
A 21-year-old girl was raised along with her brother by their single mom. Her mom had her and her brother out of wedlock, and so her grandparents instantly disliked her and her brother for that very reason.
When she was little, her grandparents spent a lot of time comparing her to her cousins, who were the favorites.
One of her cousins, in particular, named Chrissy, was the child her grandparents really adored. However, Chrissy relentlessly bullied her when they were little.
When it came time for her to graduate high school on the early side, her whole family chose to go to Chrissy’s pageant instead of her graduation, so that made everything hurt worse.
It was just her brother, her mom, and her mom’s handful of friends that were able to make it to her graduation.
It’s easy to see why Chrissy has never been someone that she liked, but after Chrissy recently shared some news with her and the rest of their family, she really can’t stand her now.
So, she used to be in a relationship with a 22-year-old guy named Jack. She dated Jack for 3 years, and she nearly got engaged to him.
“Y’all, I was in so much deep love with him,” she explained. “Our relationship came to an end when he became cold and just abruptly ended it with no explanation.”
“Not even an excuse. Just gone. It took me 10 months of hard work and learning self-love to not be in pain anymore. He hadn’t crossed my mind for 5 months afterward until this week.”
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“Chrissy announced that she is expecting and having a baby boy. The thing is…he never mentioned a boyfriend until she said, Jack.”
It turns out that Chrissy began dating Jack 3 months before her relationship with Jack officially ended. She obviously wasn’t happy for Chrissy, but her grandparents sure were when Chrissy made the announcement to their family.
Her entire family turned on her and accused her of being envious of Chrissy, so she left and went home.
“I’m trying not to beat myself up; I really am considering an ultimatum for my grandparents. Be in my cousin’s/her baby’s life, and I stop paying for their medicine, never aid in bills (so they’d be homeless), and cut contact or cut my cousin off and keep everything,” she continued.
“It’s selfish of me to have these thoughts, but I can’t even tolerate Crissy having everything while I seem to be thrown in the dark.”
She added that over the last couple of years, her grandparents have acknowledged the mistakes they made when she was little, and they have really made an effort to grow closer to her. She’s close to her grandparents now, but if she issues this ultimatum to them, it’s something that will rip their family apart.
Should she go through with the ultimatum?
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