Ben also said they would probably never even run into each other at home because they have such different work schedules.
But honestly, she did not care about Ben’s arguments at all and just really did not want him in her house. So, she refused again, and she figured that was the end of that.
After sharing the situation with some friends, though, she was shocked to receive some pretty mixed responses.
Of course, some people totally supported her decision and thought that since Ben never treated her like family, he did not get to waltz back into her life and ask for familial support.
Interestingly, though, the people who are against her decision believe she should be doing this for Ben’s daughter, Adeline.
“A lot of people are telling me to think about Adeline because my decision will have the heaviest impact on her and not on Ben and that I should know more than anyone that no child should be punished for their parent’s bad choices,” she said.
And that sentiment obviously struck a really personal chord with her. So now, she is feeling pretty conflicted about her decision and is not sure if refusing to let Ben and his family move in was the wrong thing to do.
Can you believe that Ben had the nerve to ask for her help? What about her friend’s thoughts– do both sides have a good point? If you were in her shoes, what would you do?
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