His Fiancée Has Been Emotionally Cheating On Him With Another Guy For Months Now, And Things May Have Gone Even Further Between Them, But She Only Owned Up To It After He Proposed And Gave Her A Ring
This 21-year-old guy recently proposed to his 20-year-old fiancée, and they have been in one another’s lives since they were quite young.
They have been dating for 4 years now, and he thinks they really are great for each other. In March, he decided to propose to her, but since giving her a ring, he’s found out that she’s been emotionally cheating on him.
The guy that his fiancée has been emotionally cheating with is 20-years-old, and this guy works with his fiancée at a coffee shop his parents actually own.
He always knew that his fiancée was friends with this guy, and that’s not something he ever had a problem with.
But then, this guy dumped his girlfriend and grew even closer to his fiancée. His fiancée and this guy would hang out all the time and then chat on social media.
He figured he was just being overly sensitive about their friendship, but then this guy mentioned to a friend that he was planning on cheating on his fiancée.
This was obviously a pretty big lie, as he has no relationship with this guy and has never said anything like that to him.
He ended up getting into an enormous argument with his fiancée over these cheating allegations, and they went days without even speaking to one another over it.
Months after the fight, his fiancée was still keeping her distance from him. On top of that, he was informed that he was not welcome to spend time with her and her guy friend.
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Not like he ever really did, but then, his fiancée informed him that he was not allowed to come to see her at work either.
“I started to feel upset about this and expressed to her that I wanted her to leave her job because of this whole incident and how it was handled,” he explained.
“She says she should talk with him, and maybe me and this guy can talk and work things out. Well, she does, and he and I work things out as much as they could be.”
During this conversation with his fiancée’s guy friend, he pointed out to this guy that he lied about the cheating allegations, and in response, his fiancée’s guy friend claimed that perhaps he had misheard the whole cheating thing.
Then, last month, he decided to take his fiancée on a beach getaway, and he proposed right there on the beach.
The vacation was incredible, but when they returned home, his fiancée admitted to him that she’s incredibly “attached” to her guy friend.
She promised to find a new job to put some space between her and her friend since now they are engaged.
“I asked her to explain what she meant a little more, to which she said: well, you work a lot, so when I couldn’t get attention from you, I would seek him out,” he said.
It’s no secret he works a ton. He has a business of his own, so he works a minimum of 72 hours each week, and he is also in school.
He says he is doing all of this for her, though. After his fiancée’s confession, he couldn’t help but feel terrible.
As he was working hard to improve their future, his fiancée was spending more and more time with her guy friend and emotionally cheating on him….all while her friend was lying about him.
“I also have no clue where things stopped because she was very secretive about it when it happened and now,” he continued.
“And several times, she would go against what I asked and see this guy alone in a private place. She also won’t cut off contact with this guy because she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings.”
“But it hurts me every time I think about it, and I don’t know if I’m overreacting/overthinking or if I’m justified.”
Do you think he is overreacting, or do you think it sounds like his fiancée is not exactly marriage material?
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