She’s Dealing With An Upset Husband After Telling Him She Won’t Be Doing Anything For His Birthday This Year Because She Doesn’t Have Any Money
Do you know anyone who always expects their friends and family to go over the top in celebrating their birthday?
One woman is dealing with an upset husband after she told him she wouldn’t be throwing him a special birthday celebration because she just had their baby.
She’s been with her husband for 15 years, and they’ve been married for the past three years. Throughout their relationship, she would go above and beyond to make her husband happy on his birthday.
She’s spent thousands of dollars sending him to nice golf clubs, hosting surprise parties, taking him to fancy steak dinners, etc.
“I used to have to save a lot to do it, but seeing him happy like that was worth it,” she said.
However, her husband hasn’t done much for her in return. Last year on her birthday, she had just given birth to their baby girl via C-section a month before.
She told her husband that it might be nice to receive a gift related to their daughter, like a card with her handprint or something involving her birthstone.
Instead of getting something like that for her, her husband told her that she shouldn’t expect any gifts from him because he didn’t have any money.
But she knew that wasn’t true because right before the birth of their baby, he dropped $2,000 at a bachelor party.
anatoliycherkas – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Her family was extremely upset with her husband and helped throw her a birthday party. He ended up getting her a gift card she couldn’t even use.
Now, she’s still on maternity leave and hasn’t been bringing in much money herself. Tensions between her and her husband have gotten worse.
Recently, he told her that he probably wasn’t going to be able to get her a Mother’s Day present because his money had to go toward bills. She silently accepted it, but then he asked her what they would do for his birthday this year.
She was appalled by his question and decided to tell him what he’s been telling her, that he shouldn’t expect anything from her because she didn’t have any money.
“He looked at me like I crushed his soul,” she remembered.
Now, he’s accusing her of never doing anything for him since they’ve been married.
How would you react if your partner treated you this way?
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