Her Boyfriend Spent $16,000 At A Club On Two Different Nights, But He Promises That He Didn’t Cheat
This 29-year-old girl has a boyfriend the same age as her, and they have been together for the last 2 years.
Their relationship is very healthy; they’re independent financially, they split chores and bills down the middle, and still go out on dates once every week.
So, a couple of months ago, her boyfriend went to a music show alone because she had to work and wasn’t able to make it.
The following day, she was up at around 5 or 6 in the morning and realized that her boyfriend still had not come home.
She got very concerned that something had happened to him, so she checked his location and could see that he was at a club.
“He ended up coming home about 30 minutes later, crying, and drunk,” she explained. “He tells me he spent 8k. I’m not joking…8k.”
“He says he spent it on bottle service, drinks, and…dances. He swear he didn’t cheat and even offered for me to “smell him” down there, which I said no to.”
“We had many long discussions about this, and he even tried to get the money back through the bank. I ended up having to trust that this was a mistake and, hopefully, a lesson learned for him. I told him I don’t want him going to a…club again, even though I feel like I should be a “cool girlfriend” I’m not okay with it and feel it borders on legitimate cheating.”
Well, last week, her boyfriend told her that he was going to go out with one of his friends to grab drinks.
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Later on, she fell asleep and then woke up again at 4 a.m. for work. Her boyfriend wasn’t home, and she looked at his location to see that he was back at a club once again.
She called him, but he did not pick up the phone. Instead, he texted her back to say that the police were at the club and that he would call her later.
She was worried about him, but she had no choice but to go right to work. After she arrived at her job, she received a call from her boyfriend, who said he got jumped at the club.
“He showed me his bank statement showing they took a total of 2 transactions equaling about 7-8k,” she said.
“He says he did not approve that amount, but I haven’t been able to bring myself to ask him more about this situation. I’m beside myself in anger, sadness, and disappointment. I don’t know what to do from here, I love this guy, and every aspect of our relationship is wonderful.”
“However, I don’t want to be an “idiot girlfriend” when it comes to this. I have hesitations as to why he would want to even go to a…club, and if he’s “happy,” why is he sabotaging our relationship and disrespecting me as his partner?”
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