He Feels Guilty About Breaking Up With His Ex-Girlfriend Because She’s Now Worried She’ll Never Have Kids Due To Her Age
This 32-year-old man was with his girlfriend, who is 34, for about two and a half years. But, ever since the beginning of their relationship, they were always getting into conflicts.
He still tried to keep their romance afloat anyway, though, and his girlfriend believed that if they moved in together, things would get better.
He was pretty hesitant at first, but he wound up agreeing. And within just one month, their arguments turned physical, and their relationship was rapidly dissolving.
“It got to the point where the fighting was so cyclical, I couldn’t take it anymore, and I broke up with her,” he recalled.
He and his girlfriend had taken some “mini-breaks” in the past due to similar issues since he needed time to reevaluate whether he wanted to continue dating her.
So, the idea of taking a break wasn’t new. But, when he broke up with her, it was finally serious.
“I have too much going on, and I am striving a lot to be in a situation that is completely unstable,” he reasoned.
“We just move at different paces and have different drives for life.”
Still, he and his now ex-girlfriend have been trying to coexist civilly until their lease is up in a few months. And it has been extremely difficult seeing his ex so upset.
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She has asked to get him back and wants to keep fighting for their relationship. However, he’s feeling very unsure about that.
Not to mention, his ex is now saying that due to the breakup and her age, she doesn’t think she will be able to have kids anymore.
According to him, she has brought this up to him various times, and it has made him feel horrible.
He’s tried telling her that she still has the opportunity to have kids, but she just won’t hear him, and it’s breaking his heart.
“It just hurts to see her devastated, but I can’t keep being in a relationship with so much turmoil. I have so much going on, and I can’t be carrying someone’s load all the time,” he vented.
Still, ever since his ex claimed their breakup would be the reason she doesn’t have children, he’s been left wondering whether calling it quits was a jerky thing to do or not.
Do you think it’s his fault his ex is now worried about having kids? If he stayed with her just for the sake of having children, would that make their relationship worse? Should he feel guilty in this situation? What would you do?
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