She Went On A Bizarre First Date With A Guy Who Bought Her Expensive Presents And Then Wouldn’t Allow Her To Order Her Own Food At A Restaurant
If a guy displays signs of controlling behavior on a first date, just imagine what being in a relationship with him would be like! It’s enough to make you hightail it in the opposite direction.
TikToker Chelsea-Marie Fenton (@chelseafentonnn) is talking about a bizarre date from her past with a guy who was super controlling and wouldn’t allow her to order her own food at the restaurant.
So nine years ago, she had been chatting with this guy for about two weeks. He invited her on a first date to a steakhouse. As a big fan of steak, she agreed enthusiastically.
He offered to pick her up, but she told him she would rather meet him there since she still lived with her parents at the time.
When she arrived, he seemed polite and was dressed very smartly. They had been chatting for about five minutes when she noticed a small gift bag sitting on the table.
He told Chelsea it was for her and slid it across the table in her direction. Inside the bag were a pair of Gucci earrings and a handful of lottery scratch cards.
She told him that she couldn’t accept the gifts, but he insisted that she keep them. Later, she discovered that she had won $165 from the scratch cards.
So, she thanked him for the gifts and asked if they should order some drinks now. However, he said he had already ordered them. When the drinks came, Chelsea took a sip and winced.
The drinks had whiskey in them, which she hated. She informed him that she didn’t like the beverage, but he asserted that this was what they would be having.
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Chelsea was left in utter confusion, especially since they had never discussed their food or drink preferences before. She resigned herself to slowly sipping on the drink because she figured she could just order a second one later.
But when she tried to wave the server over, he told her there was no need. He had already ordered their food. She asked what he had ordered for her, and he replied that he had gotten them both the same thing.
In a comment, Chelsea revealed that he had ordered her a well-done steak that was basically burned. She usually likes steaks cooked rare. He also got her a lettuce wedge with mustard.
Typically, when Chelsea goes out to eat, she would like to pick her own meal. She thought that he was a bit controlling for a first date. She also believed that the expensive present was a way of reeling her in because now she felt bad about being unhappy with the way things were going.
But then, she realized that she really did not want to be there, eating food she did not enjoy. She explained to him that she was leaving. He offered to drop her back off, but she declined.
When she arrived home, she knew she could not spend the rest of her life with someone who ordered food for her without asking what she liked.
What would you have done in Chelsea’s situation?
@chelseafentonnn ??This date was just bizarre… it was about 9 years ago but had to share. Dont know how i kept my mouth shut tbh? #baddate #baddatestory #baddates #dating #olddates #olddate #previous #past #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #foryourpage #storytime
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