After His Parents Demanded That His Fiancée Sign A Prenup, She Started Crying And Asked Him If She Ever Made Him Feel Like She Only Cares About His Money
After two and a half years together, this 30-year-old guy just asked his 25-year-old fiancée to marry him a couple of months ago.
He says that his fiancée is wonderful, and he never wants to spend a moment away from her. She’s the woman of his dreams and everything he could have hoped for or needed.
Now, his fiancée grew up middle class, while both his mom and dad come from very wealthy families, so he grew up rich.
“I’ve spent the last 12 years after junior college to become a doctor like my parents, and of course, my parents have quite a bit of money and property, which my younger sister and I will inherit,” he explained.
“My mother brought up the prenup first, and I thought it was fine and I would talk to my fiancée first, but we had lunch 3 weeks ago at my parent’s house, and while we were relaxing in the den, my family lawyer walks in and pretty much just hands over the papers to my father and they start talking to her.”
“I stop my father and tell him that I need to talk to her by myself and this is not the right time or way to do this. My mother starts acting passive-aggressive, and it’s turning into an argument.”
At that moment, his fiancée piped up and said she would sign the prenup before stating that with the way the world is right now, his mom and dad are clearly just trying to look out for him.
Regardless of what went down in front of his parents, he was planning on bringing a prenup up to his fiancée at some point, but it happened in a way that he didn’t imagine.
His fiancée has never seemed to him to care about the money he has, and although she makes less than he does at her job, she’s great at her career and loves it.
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“When I gift her something expensive, which is usually on her birthdays, I’ve seen her act like it’s some sort of burden almost,” he said.
“I got her a designer bag, which she has still kept in the box at the back of her closet, she only wears the jewelry when it’s a special occasion.”
Anytime that he does pick out something more simple for her, she seems to enjoy those gifts more than the lavish ones.
She also puts a tremendous effort into picking out presents for him, and they are always thoughtful and touching.
Unfortunately, ever since he and his fiancée came home from spending time with his parents, she has been unusually quiet.
He has tried to say sorry to her multiple times, but she claims he has nothing to apologize for. She has continued to pack him lunch and breakfast every morning as per usual, and she cooks him dinner every night, too still.
But she’s different, and he feels like she’s broken after being asked to sign the prenup. She’s no longer her glowing self.
Last night, he picked up some takeout for dinner after work and arrived at their home. As they were eating together, he said sorry once more for how his parents addressed the prenup and how it was not right of them to have done it in that way.
He then informed his fiancée that he has been talking to his mom after all that, and he thinks his mom should say sorry to her.
“She starts tearing up and asks me if she’s ever made me feel like she’s wanted me only for my money, I tell her absolutely not, I know she loves me with the way she cares and treats me,” he continued.
“I told her nothing would happen to us, we’re meant for each other, I’m nothing without her, and the prenup is just a piece of paper.”
“She still looked sad and asked if we could have a long engagement. We were to get married in Feb ’24, but she wants to push for another year or a year and a half. I want to marry her right now, and I don’t know what to do to make things better.”
What advice do you have for him?
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