Her Husband Randomly Became Distant At Home And Then Lied About Being At Work One Afternoon, So Now She Is Paranoid That He’s Cheating On Her

This 34-year-old woman and her husband, who is 36, have been married since 2017. She claims that even though her husband isn’t the “best looking,” he’s always been really sweet, and he is very attractive to her.
So, they remained romantic after tying the knot and would typically be physical together multiple times each week.
Yet, about two weeks ago, her husband started acting weird out of nowhere and tried to avoid her anytime they were in the bedroom.
One night, she even specifically asked him if he wanted to be physical, and her husband just sighed, claimed he was too tired, and got angry at her.
“He was straight up mad at me and gave me an attitude the whole time,” she recalled.
She tried to ask if something else was going on in her husband’s life, but he just ignored her. So, they wound up simply falling asleep, and she was left with a really bad feeling in her gut.
That’s why, the very next day, she decided to go to her husband’s work to deliver him some food and apologize for whatever she did wrong.
Upon arriving, she asked one of his coworkers, who she is friends with, if they’d seen her husband. However, she learned that her husband actually hadn’t shown up to work that day and immediately became worried.
She first texted her husband but got no response. Then, she called him twice, and he still didn’t answer.

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“And I was getting worried that maybe something had happened to him,” she explained.
“I searched online for any recent accidents and hoped more than anything not to see his car on the news.”
Not long afterward, though, her husband finally called her back, and she was able to breathe a sigh of relief.
But then, once she knew that her husband was okay, she started to become angry– asking her husband where he was and what he was doing. Well, her husband tried to claim that he was at work, and obviously, that wasn’t the case.
“I felt betrayed since he was obviously lying to me,” she said. “But maybe I was overreacting.”
So, she tried to keep her cool and just tell her husband that she was going to drop off some food for him at work. Yet, he wasn’t okay with that– telling her not to because he wasn’t hungry.
This pushed her to just head back to her car in the parking lot, and while still on the phone with her husband, she started screaming at him and asking him where he had really been.
And to her surprise, her husband just called her “crazy” and said she was accusing him of cheating.
Now, after that, she did start to feel bad– which is why she ended their phone call. Still, ever since her husband brought up cheating, she can’t help but wonder if her husband might actually be cheating on her or if she’s really just being paranoid.
Do you think it’s strange that her husband brought up cheating before she even said that word? Why do you think he started pulling away from her at home and lied about being at work? Should she be paranoid or not?
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