She Called A Bride On Her Wedding Day And Revealed That The Groom Had Been Trying To Hook Up With Her
Not long ago, this 25-year-old woman graduated from college.
She started school in 2017, and during the year, she had a group of friends, some of whom she was closer with than others.
Among this friend group were a man and woman named Tim and Sally, but she wasn’t too close with Sally.
The following year, she didn’t go back to school due to finances, so she was working for a while instead before starting classes again.
When she returned to school, Tim started texting her from time to time.
Within the last month or so, Tim occasionally invited her to hang out together, and she agreed.
The college they all attended specialized in IT, and it was made up of mostly male students, so she didn’t think it was a big deal to hang out with men as just friends without expecting to be hit on by them.
“The following weeks, he texted me constantly, including a confession, saying he likes me and wishes to pursue more than a friendship type of relationship,” she said.
She didn’t return these feelings because she was too busy with schoolwork and wanted to focus on homework and a final project that she had to finish at the time. There was no way she could start dating someone.
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Plus, their relationship would have had to be long-distance since they lived in different districts, and neither of them was living on campus at the college they were attending.
A couple of days ago, she was on WhatsApp and saw that one of her friends made a post with a photo of invitations to two different couples’ weddings.
One of the invitations was to Tim and Sally’s wedding, and before this, she’d had no idea the two of them had been engaged or that Tim was in a relationship at all in the first place.
“I felt uneasy. I asked my friends for advice. One said to let it go and let them be, but to me, it felt like witnessing a murder and doing nothing about it,” she explained.
Throughout the rest of the night, she tried to track down Sally’s phone number so that she could call her and let her know that Tim had been hitting on her.
She also texted Tim and called him out for his gross behavior, and when she went to bed, he hadn’t responded yet.
In the morning, she looked at her phone and saw that Tim had texted her back.
He told her that she may think he was a liar, and no matter what he says, it’ll seem like he’s trying to excuse and rationalize his actions with more lies.
Continuing, he said that it was tough for him to explain himself and get her to see his perspective, and he told her he’d leave her alone unless she was open to talking more and hearing his side of the situation.
She didn’t text him back and didn’t think there was anything else to say to a shady man like that.
“I did get Sally’s number, though, but when I texted her and sent her images of his confession to me, she was offline, probably preparing for the wedding. So, I called her and explained to her,” she shared.
Sally thanked her, and eventually, she saw that Sally was online and saw all of the screenshots she’d sent her as proof of Tim asking her to date him.
Tim and Sally still got married, but she was glad that Sally knew the truth about who Tim was before she followed through with the wedding.
Do you think she did the right thing?
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