7 Signs You Sadly Are Not The Girl Of His Dreams
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I think it’s safe to say that every girl hopes to find a man who makes you feel like you’re the one he’s been waiting for all his life.
It’s natural to want to be with a guy who puts you on a pedestal, treats you right, and is convinced you’re the one he wants to spend forever with.
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And honestly, you shouldn’t settle for a guy who considers you to be less than the girl of his dreams. When the signs point to you not being it, it can be hard to come to terms with, but you need to be eyes wide open and prioritize yourself.
Here are 10 signs that you, sadly, are not the girl of his dreams.
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He Never Plans Dates
If the guy you’re seeing doesn’t put any kind of effort or attention into planning dates, let alone spending time with you, that’s not a good sign.
Furthermore, if he comes across as less than excited or even uncaring about being around you, he’s not that into you.
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He Will Not Talk About The Future
He avoids talking about a future that involves you. He won’t bring up getting committed or proposing to you.
He doesn’t look at things on a long-term timeline and seems to only be living for the here and now…which doesn’t include you.
If you try to bring up things that are important to you, like settling down or planning out a life together with him, he quickly changes the topic.
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He’s Checked Out When You’re With Him
His phone and what he’s doing on it are more important than living in the moment and spending time with you.
When you’re together, and he’s not busy on his phone, he’s looking off into outer space, tuning out your conversations, or appears to just be checked out.
He never makes you feel like he’s interested in you or being in a relationship with you. He comes across like he could be doing better things with his time.
Add more negative points if he makes you feel like he’s bored by you.
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He Doesn’t Exactly Communicate
He takes his sweet time replying to your calls or text messages. He dares to leave you on read for days.
He makes you feel like you’re doing all of the heavy lifting on the communication side. If he was really that into you, he would work to develop a solid communication connection, not leave you wanting more.
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He Won’t Let You Meet His Loved Ones
Getting to meet a guy’s family members or friends is a major part of building a meaningful relationship, but he won’t let you meet his loved ones.
Maybe he tells you no, or maybe he dances around the subject when you bring it up. Either way, if he’s not saying to you this is important to him, there’s no way you mean as much as you think you do.
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He Makes You Feel Like You’re Anything Except Special Or A Priority In His Life
He makes you feel like you’re just some other rando in his life; not a girlfriend, not a partner, not a dream girl or potential wife material.
He does nothing to make you feel like you’re important to him or he’s invested in you. He doesn’t do anything thoughtful.
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He Doesn’t Want To Be Seen In Public With You
He’s only into Netflix and chill. He invites you over to his place, but he doesn’t want to be seen out and about with you.
He does not ask you out on official dates or ask you to do things in a group setting with his friends.
It’s like he’s keeping you hidden because he’s not excited to let people know that you are together or an item.
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If you think the guy you’re seeing is throwing off any of these signs, try to talk to him first to see what’s going on.
But if he’s not even willing to have a conversation with you, that’s a bad sign in itself and something you can’t ignore.
Never settle for a guy who doesn’t treat you like the girl of his dreams because life’s too short to be on board with being treated like you’re less than.
And if you’re worried it hurts to let go, just know the guy of your dreams will come along one day and make you realize your worth.
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