Her Fiancé Confessed That He Slept With His Married Best Friend, And Then He Changed The Password On His Phone
This 24-year-old girl has a 27-year-old fiancé, and she is pregnant right now with their first child. Back when she started dating her fiancé, he said to her that he has nothing he needs to hide, so that she was welcome to go through his phone whever she wanted.
He took her thumbprint and used that to give her access to his phone. At the time, she thought it was strange, and it took her two months into their relationship to grant him the same access.
Fast forward to a month ago, and in a two week span, she noticed her fiancé take her phone every single morning super early so he could see what she was up to.
She wasn’t irritated by this, even though she found it odd, since she only uses her phone for paying bills, talking to her family, and going on social media.
She finally asked her fiancé why he was being so secretive about taking her phone, and he told her he didn’t really know why.
It’s worth saying that although she has permission to go through his phone, she never has, and they have been together for years.
Then, last night, her fiancé questioned her about if she had any secrets she was keeping from him. She told him she had none, which is the truth, but then he told her he had a secret he wanted to reveal to her.
Her fiancé confessed that right before they began dating, he slept with his married best friend, who was having problems with her husband.
Now, back when she started dating her fiancé, she asked him if he had ever been romantic with his best friend, as she didn’t want to be made to feel like she had to be in some kind of competition with this girl.
javiindy – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Her fiancé maintained that they were just friends and nothing had ever happened, yet he clearly lied to her.
She brought up the lie, and her fiancé said he just couldn’t bring himself to tell her the truth way back then.
“I don’t mind him having her as a best friend, but they talk every day, almost all day, on Snapchat; he tells her everything from work to personal stuff (including our relationship) from what he’s verbally shared with me,” she explained.
“They’re best friends, so it shouldn’t bother me, but I’m not necessarily comfortable with her being so involved like she is, knowing they’ve had…relations while she was married. Fast forward to today, I went to pick up my fiancé’s phone to double-check the time for our work alarms, and instead of it automatically unlocking on me, I noticed he removed the thumbprint option and put a different passcode on it.”
“I don’t know how to bring it up to him or if there are any red flags I’m missing. I don’t want to feel like I can’t trust my partner, but at the same time, I feel like I can’t trust him. I don’t understand why he automatically changed the password after last night’s conversation regarding his best friend.”
What advice do you have for her?
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