Abby Connolly
That’s because true love is nonjudgmental, and it’s forgiving. A guy who loves you shouldn’t make you feel like you have to be ‘on’, and you have to pretend to be someone you’re not. You should be able to just exist and go about living your life.
If you’ve been dating someone for a while and feel as though you still have to channel a different persona, that’s not a good sign.
Plus, you also don’t want to let yourself get too upset when things don’t go well with someone who bails once you start to relax and let your guard down.
That means if you stayed with them, you’d live in a state of stress and discomfort, not being able to feel like you can fully relax or be yourself. Who wants to live like that?
So remember– someone who loves you will love you for who you are. On your next dating adventure, your only job is to be yourself.
If that’s not good enough for someone, it’s time to brush them off and move on to the next person. You’ve got this!
