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He Canceled The Surprise Birthday Party His Wife Was Planning For Him Behind Her Back Because He Made It Clear He Didn’t Want One, But His Wife Said He’s Too Controlling And Ruined Her Fun

Despite that, tensions have still been high in their relationship, and his wife has been giving him the cold shoulder ever since. On top of that, some of their mutual friends have begun calling him a jerk for ruining his girlfriend’s plans.

“I feel like I was clear about my boundaries, and I didn’t want to be put in a position where I was uncomfortable,” he vented.

Nonetheless, with his wife still mad at him, he’s been left wondering if canceling his own surprise birthday party without telling her was really the wrong thing to do.

Why do you think his wife feels like he ruined her fun if the party was supposed to be for him? Shouldn’t he get to celebrate his birthday the way he wants to? How should he handle this?

You can read the original post on Reddit here.

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