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“At this point, I started to have doubts about her future health, having children, pregnancy, and the whole gambit of issues that could potentially impact our future life together,” he said.
“I know, not a loving or romantic thing to say. This was two years ago, and I have been in the throws of doubts and uncertainty for the entire time.”
His doubtfulness has made his life a living nightmare, and it’s also negatively impacted his girlfriend.
He has begun to suffer on an emotional, physical, and even professional level due to him dragging on their relationship with no concrete plans for the future.
He can’t seem to make up his mind to commit to his girlfriend fully or dump her and move on with his life.
“She has given me an ultimatum a couple of times, but we have gotten back together, and I think if I don’t do something, this can go on for another year or two,” he continued.
“I do love her, but I’m just not in a great mental space, and the dynamics of the relationship have changed and are not conducive to getting married or is not happy in general.”
“She has given me 5 days to make up my mind; I am also convinced that this ambivalence and limbo is detrimental to the both of us and can’t be sustained.”
What advice do you have for him?
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