Her Friend Always Goes After Guys Who Are Not Single, And It’s Making Her Lose All Respect For Her Friend

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This Woman Has A Close Friend The Same Age That She Is

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A 22-year-old girl has a friend the same age as her named Monica, and they have been close for the last 4 years now.

From The Moment She Met Her Friend, She Instantly Liked Her

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She instantly liked Monica as soon as she met her, though she does know that Monica is pretty impolite, she always figured that was just part of Monica’s personality.

Then Her Friend Got Into A Situationship

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“Around 2 years back, she was in a situationship with one of our mutual friends even though she knew he had a girlfriend for 2 years,” she explained about Monica.

But After Things Between Her Friend And This Guy Got Physical, He Ghosted Her Friend

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Monica and this guy friend of theirs started exchanging steamy texts, and as soon as things got physical between them, this guy ghosted Monica completely.

It Also Turned Out This Guy Had A Girlfriend

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But then, this guy popped back up into Monica’s life, and he went right back to having a physical relationship with her even though he still had a girlfriend.

Her Friend Went Back To Sleeping With This Guy, Even Though He Wasn’t Single

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Monica claimed to feel uneasy about the whole situation, but she never did anything about it. All she did was continue meeting up with this guy and sleeping with him, and Monica is still doing this 2 years after the fact.

She Started To No Longer Like Her Friend

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“I started disliking her after this incident, but surprisingly, I was the only person in our group who was against this relationship; all our other mutual friends told her to enjoy this feeling and that it was not her mistake; it was his,” she said.

Her Friend Didn’t Learn Her Lesson About Getting Involved With Cheaters

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“Then, a year later, a new guy in our group kissed her when we were drunk. His GF is our friend, too, and they’d been doing stuff behind her back for a long time. I kept telling her not to meet him, but she said she has feelings for him.”

Her Friend Stayed In A Hotel With This New Guy

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Monica wound up booking a hotel room with this guy, and as soon as he slept with her, he ghosted her just like the first guy had.

Her Friend Moved On To A Third Non-Single Guy

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This brings us to today: Monica has found herself another guy. Monica swears up and down that she hasn’t done anything with this guy, who has been with his girlfriend for 3 or 4 years.

Her Friend Is Increasingly Spending Alone Time With This Guy

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Monica has been frequently spending time alone with this guy and hanging out with him super late at night in his car.

Her Friend Is Now Lying To Her

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Monica has also lied to her face about her plans, and then she would later learn that Monica was out with this guy. The girlfriend of Monica’s new interest knows about Monica since she saw messages between him and Monica, and the girlfriend is upset.

She’s Lost All Sympathy For Her Friend

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“I have just lost all sympathy and respect for her at this point,” she continued. “Whenever my BF hangs out with her, I can’t help but think she’s gonna hit on him; I mean, everyone likes her.”

She Doesn’t See How She Can Continue The Friendship

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“She’s pretty, she’s smart…but I just cannot be friends with someone who feels no remorse at all about the relationships she’s ruining, and I have just started to find her so irritating that I can’t even look at her face now. She has a lot of problems in her life, and I’m finding it hard to think whether I should be a good friend and be with her despite everything or just give up and slowly distance myself.”

Do You Think She Should Stop Being Friends With Her?

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Do you think it’s time for her to stop being friends with Monica?

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