She Freaked Out On Her Husband And Said His Daughter Is No Longer Allowed In Their Home
For the last 12 years, this 44-year-old woman has been married to her husband, who is the same age as her.
They have kids from previous relationships; she has two, and he has one, a 24-year-old daughter named A.
Her husband and his ex, A’s mom, broke up when her husband caught this woman cheating on him.
Her husband’s ex made it impossible for him to spend time with A when she was little, and the trash-talking her husband’s ex did ruined A’s opinion of him.
Her husband and A do not have the best relationship to this day, just to set the stage. The very first time she even met A, A remarked that her husband owed her for being an absent dad.
Clearly, A doesn’t understand the damage her own mom did and blames him for that. Over the years, A keeps making nasty comments like this.
“We had hoped when she became an adult, this would change, but it hasn’t,” she explained. “She says she wants a relationship and will come around for a little while and then we don’t see or hear from her for months until she wants money or something.”
“When she does come around, she always makes little digs at me for things like how she won’t eat the food I made because she prefers the way her mom cooks it.”
“…My biggest problem is I hate the way that she dangles a relationship in front of my husband to get what she wants, then bails when she gets it.”
kristina_1994 – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
A recently announced her pregnancy, and she went overboard with talking about what she wants her baby to call them all.
She figured A was trying to wipe the slate clean and start fresh with them, but she was so wrong. Over the past nine months, A has only visited them three times in total.
During those visits, A said she wasn’t actually going to be a grandparent, only her husband. The last time she saw A, she made her a baby blanket, and when A hurried over to pick it up, A attempted to guilt-trip her into letting her keep one of the cats she owns.
Recently, her husband’s ex called to inform them that the baby will not be allowed to come to their home to visit due to the cats, so that was super weird.
Her husband’s ex added that if her husband would like to see the baby, it has to be at her home, as A is going to be moving back with her baby. Her husband tried to call A after that conversation, but she declined to return his calls.
“We finally heard from A last week, wanting to know how much stuff we were going to buy from her baby registry,” she said.
“We had been having financial struggles, so he told her he didn’t know yet. We have since returned to not hearing anything until today when the ex called to tell [my husband] that A was in labor and had debated on him coming, but my kids and I couldn’t come to the hospital.”
“I finally went off and told him his daughter is [rude] and said that I will never stand in his way or try to stop him if he wants to be in her life, but I am done, and she’s no longer welcome in our home as I am sick of her treating us like crap.”
She’s left wondering if it was wrong of her to flip out on her husband and say his daughter is never allowed to come over anymore.
What do you think?
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