I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that on a long enough timeline, your significant other shares their address with you, and/or you at least visit their home.
For a year and a half now, this 27-year-old woman has been dating her 34-year-old boyfriend, but she, oddly enough, doesn’t know where he lives.
Not only that, her boyfriend refuses to disclose his address, and when she brings the topic up, he gets weird and awkward about it.
Back when she began dating her boyfriend, and after he had already come to her home, she requested that he share his address with her.
After a month of asking, he relented, but several things made her believe he lied to her about the location.
First, her boyfriend mentioned having a pool, but when she looked up the address he gave her on Google Maps, there wasn’t one there.
Next, her boyfriend FaceTimes with her every single evening for several hours, and he only does video calls when he’s in the dark and in his bed.
She can’t even tell what color his bedsheets are, it’s that dark, and if she asks to see them, he gets strange about it.
She’s driven past his alleged house, and each car parked in the driveway didn’t belong to him or his family members either.
He’s also come to pick her up from what he says is his house, but it took three times as long as it should have to drive from there to her home.
She began lightly calling out his lies, and gave him ample time to own up to it, but he never did. She even informed him that she wouldn’t be angry if he just gave her his real address. Her boyfriend continued to lie.
“I know this sounds like he may be married or something, but I know this is not the case,” she explained.
“If it was, I would be extremely surprised. He is a very quiet man, a gentleman and lives a very straight and narrow life. He has never drank or did drugs before, never been to a club, never had a girlfriend. He is highly educated and is a multimillionaire.”
“Now fast foward to us being in a relationship for over a year, I threatened to break up with him (multiple times) because he is lying to me about where he lives. He also lies about a lot of small things regarding himself… but it is the address thing that bothers me the most.”
Recently, her boyfriend gave her photos of his mom and dad’s cars in front of a home that looked different than the one he said he lived at.
He still refused to provide her with an address, and she was so thrilled he finally took some kind of step in the right direction that she didn’t press it.
Several weeks went by and then she put the photos her boyfriend gave her into an internet search, and the home came up as for sale. Obviously, there’s no way her boyfriend lives there.
“I confronted him about it and he again is swearing that this is his home,” she added. “He has been looking to buy a new home, so clearly he took this photo while he was at a showing for this house.”
“Im tired. I don’t know what to do. This is so weird. We are planning to get married. I live in an expensive home which he pays for (he doesnt live here with me), and he takes care of me financially. I live great, he is such a good man, extremely loyal and honestly a dream man. But lying and not knowing where he lives is messed up. What do I do? What are your thoughts?”
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