I firmly believe that if you know a cheater, you should expose them to their partner instead of keeping their secret. I don’t care if it’s a parent or a best friend to you who cheated; don’t protect people who are willing to hurt someone they’re supposed to love.
Do you agree that a cheater’s spouse has a right to know about their infidelity?
This 27-year-old man has been married to his 26-year-old wife for the last seven years. On Sunday evening, his wife said she was going out to a bar with her dad, and multiple people saw them there together…along with her ex-boyfriend.
His wife slept with her ex-boyfriend that evening, whom she dated in 2018. Meanwhile, he was home watching their daughters, who are 2 and 3. He had no idea what his wife was up to, and then one of her friends spilled the secret to him yesterday.
Apparently, his wife called this friend of hers up in tears, revealing what she did. His wife’s friend tried to get his wife to tell him the truth, but she didn’t want to do that, and she still hasn’t said a peep to him.
“The best part of it all is that I found out about it while on the way to meet the wife for the very rare child-free dinner and because I was afraid of making a mistake out of emotion, I had to sit across from her with this knew knowledge in my stomach while she talked about our plans to start trying for baby number three (IUD comes out tomorrow), how much she’s enjoyed staying home raising our kids, and how much she’s appreciated everything I do to allow her to stay home and focus on being a mother to our little girls,” he explained.
He really wanted to throw up, but he didn’t let it slip that he knows all about the affair. That evening, his wife was super affectionate, and she’s normally distant when home with him and the kids.
His wife’s friend, who filled him in, said that his wife thinks she can bring this secret along with her to the grave. This friend asked him if he wanted all of the dirty details, and he said yes, so he knows his wife wasn’t safe while hooking up with her ex.
Also, his wife has been chatting with her ex all week, so there has to be feelings there for the guy or something. His wife’s friend mentioned she thinks his wife won’t sleep with her ex again, but it’s obvious his wife is oblivious to the damage she’s done already.
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He’s sad for his kids because he doesn’t see how he can stay with his wife, let alone have another child with her, after her hookup.
“When I found out a handful of hours ago and realized there was no room for this to be a misunderstanding, I immediately thought divorce was the only path forward. I can’t imagine I’ll ever trust her again,” he added.
“On the other hand, I love her. I feel bad for her in all of this somehow because she comes from a family where things like this happen.”
“Her mom abandoned her when she was a kid, and she has no real, reliable family. I can’t see how she could possibly land on her own feet, and I don’t want my babies to be put in bad circumstances because of her lack of options.”
When he files for divorce, his wife will most likely go stay with her family, but they’re all degenerates with substance abuse issues.
He’s left wondering what he can do to make sure his bond with his little girls doesn’t break amid the end of his marriage.
First of all, he needs to not have a third baby with his wife amid the news of her affair. He also should confront his wife, I think, before filing for divorce.
What advice do you have for him?
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