One day, TikToker Stacey (@chenevert) took her son to the dentist, and that was where she met her affair partner. That day, she was in messy mom mode, busy thinking about dinner, laundry, and everything else.
She hadn’t expected to meet anyone. It was the last thing on her mind.
Toward the end of the appointment, the dentist came and shook hands with her. He held onto her hand longer than he should have and just stared at her without saying anything right away. The way he was staring at her made something stir inside her chest.
Then, he said that they hadn’t met before. She agreed, as it was the first time she had taken her son to the dentist. The brief interaction ended, and they headed home after the appointment. She didn’t have time to think about it because she had too many other things to do.
At some point, she returned to the office for her own dentist appointment. When the dentist walked in, he was his usual charming self. She tried to distract herself so she wouldn’t feel any attraction toward him.
“When our eyes met, something odd happened,” Stacey recalled. “There was kind of a connection, a little electricity that happened. And then, there were some more appointments in between.”
He asked her about her husband and Valentine’s Day. She awkwardly chuckled and blew off the question, especially since her husband was not one for romantic holidays. But the spark had already started to catch fire. It was the first time someone had really taken notice of her in years.
At that time, she felt like she and her husband were just living like roommates. She couldn’t stop thinking about how miserable and lonely she was. They were unable to connect with each other.
So, she had an affair with her dentist and married him. She then cheated on him as well. Since then, she has healed herself and gotten down to the root of why she had an affair in the first place.

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“What I have found since then is that anytime my husband and I are in this disconnected place, or I’m starting to feel alone or anything like that, I express that to him,” said Stacey.
“But that doesn’t always work right away. Sometimes, it takes a little while for us to come to an agreement on what we’re going to do and how we’re going to slow down.”
Ultimately, she wanted to share her side of the story because the viewpoints of those who commit the affairs are often few and far between.
Of course, her story is a very controversial one, but she will never forget the lessons she has learned.