If you thought that the person you were seeing for weeks was single, only to find out that they lied and roped you into an affair, would you want to stop things?
For the last couple of weeks, this 20-year-old guy has been seeing a woman who is significantly older than he is, but they’ve been having a blast together.
They’ve gone out on a handful of dates and met up to hook up on top of that. This weekend, he invited this woman over to his house to have some fun and watch movies.
She got up to use the bathroom but left her phone behind. It rang, and the photo that came up on the screen was of this woman with another guy, and she was sitting on his lap.
“Now we’re not exclusive, and I wasn’t bothered about her seeing other people, but I noticed there was a ring on her wedding finger. This obviously threw me off, as she never wore one around me,” he explained.
“I debated whether to confront her about it, but decided it was best to get it out of the way. She was very panicked when I asked about it, but eventually revealed that it was her husband of 12 years! Now I’m a fairly non-caring guy, but this was a bombshell to me.”
He thinks he’s way too young to have been duped into sleeping with a married woman, who has spent essentially half of his life with her husband.
This woman promised she had never cheated on her husband before, and that she wasn’t intending to hook up with him, but things just fell into place, and they have a great connection.
He’s doubtful that this is the very first time she’s been unfaithful to her husband, and he has requested that they take some time apart so he can consider his options.
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“I know I should break it off, but I really do have the best time with her, and part of me feels like it’s not my problem. I’m unsure what to do,” he concluded.
Well, it’s wrong of this woman to cheat, full stop, and he has to know that. It is his problem that he got deceived into this mess; it’s not like he was a willing participant.
It’s safer for him to let her go, as who knows what lengths her husband might go to once he finds out about all of this? It’s bound to happen because sneaking around with someone you’re not married to always gets out one way or another.
There are plenty of single fish out there in the sea, and he should go try to find one instead of trying to make the relationship with this woman work.
What advice do you have for him?
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