Imagine being eight months pregnant and finding out that every time your boyfriend said he was with the boys, he was actually with the girl he promised you didn’t have to worry about.
That is the heartbreaking reality for one woman who just dumped her cheating partner after realizing his affair spanned her whole pregnancy.
To make matters worse, the side chick is apparently unhappy about the baby and was even trying to negotiate a spot at the hospital. It is no wonder this mom decided that her ex has officially lost his delivery room privileges.
This 33-year-old woman is eight months pregnant, and she unfortunately just discovered that her 34-year-old boyfriend has been cheating on her with the girl he promised nothing was happening with.
She promptly dumped him, and she’s extremely hurt. Especially since her now ex-boyfriend has been cheating on her with this girl since before she got pregnant and throughout her entire pregnancy, all the while lying to her face.
He would even lie and say he was spending time with his friends so he could go over to this girl’s house to see her.
“When I found this out, he said he was breaking it off and that he was in the process of ending things with her and asked for time. I refused and told him I was removing myself from the love triangle I never asked to be in,” she explained.
“After long, drawn-out talks about this, he admitted that she was not happy about my pregnancy and was even talking about being at the hospital because she doesn’t want him to share that intimate moment with me.”
“Apparently, they’ve talked about my pregnancy extensively and how she feels about it. He tells me that he shut this down, but I am feeling very uneasy about this. Obviously me exiting the picture means he’s going to be with her, and I do not want her anywhere near me or my child or her accompanying him to the hospital while I’m giving birth, which I feel he would allow because he values her feelings when it comes to our child, based on what he told me.”
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She informed her ex that she is banning him from the delivery room in light of how his side chick feels. While he promises that he told his side chick she’s not allowed to come to the hospital along with him, she doesn’t care.
She doesn’t want there to be the opportunity for this girl to be involved or distracting her ex with texts and calls while she’s going to be focusing on bringing a baby into the world, and one he said he wanted no less.
She also wants to prevent her ex from providing this girl with details regarding her labor, delivery, and potential complications, or giving out photos or information about her baby.
Her ex is upset that he’s no longer allowed in the delivery room, but she is sticking to her decision. His side chick is a wild card who already dislikes the fact that she’s pregnant and is negatively interfering already.
Her ex additionally shared with her that his side chick is convinced he’s not even the father, which is obviously untrue.
“I do not want him there, bringing in negative energy into that sacred space. He didn’t care about the baby all this time, even questioned paternity, and now is upset he can’t participate in the birth? Why does it matter now?” she wondered.
“Should I continue with my decision despite his desire to be there, knowing all that I know now?”
I think she needs to keep him out of there. There’s no reason for him to be invited to the birth of their child after how he and his side chick acted.
Taking it a step further, I’m sure she can inform the hospital of everything, and they should be able to help ban her ex from being there, should he show up.
What do you think?
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By Bre Avery Zacharski
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