Her Boyfriend Proposed To Her And She Walked Out Of The Room Without Saying A Word To Him
A 26-year-old woman who has been with her 26-year-old boyfriend for 3 years recently started discussing with him what their future would look like together.
They’re really on the same page about everything in their lives, and then their conversations turned to getting engaged.
A year ago, they extensively discussed what the best proposal would look like for them.
She was expecting him to propose to her in a simple yet romantic way that involved the great outdoors.
She was thinking he would propose to her while they were hiking through the mountains (something they both enjoy doing) or while walking through a forest together.
They both live in an area where mountains and forests are numerous, so it would not be hard for her boyfriend to set the stage in an outdoorsy way.
She was truly looking forward to the day he was going to ask for her hand in marriage, and she could envision how exciting it all was going to be.
Make no mistake, she and her boyfriend have talked about the actual proposal numerous times, and they had even thrown around ideas for which mountain close to them would be the most perfect for the proposal.
“Yesterday, after I came back home from work exhausted, we cooked, watched tv, and at some point, I went to the hallway to hang a coat,” she explained.
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“He followed me and he proposed. Between the shoes on the floor, the kitchen, and the restroom, he was kneeling.”
She was so shocked and upset by what he was doing that she couldn’t control herself.
The dreams she had about her special day disappeared into thin air, and she walked right out of the room without saying a single word to him.
“I was so hurt, I couldn’t say a word,” she revealed. “Couldn’t even accept it. I looked at him, looked around me as I couldn’t believe where he proposed, felt the tears in my eyes.”
“I nodded and walked past him to lay on the bed and cry.”
After some time, he came into their room and asked her what the problem was. She made it clear to him that she was expecting the proposal to be completely different, like how they had discussed in the past.
She did tell him she would go through with marrying him despite her proposal dreams being dashed.
She told her friends, and they’re not really sure what to think about all this. Some think she’s in the wrong and she’s an ingrate, while others think she’s in the right.
She apologized to him in the end, but she still feels disappointed in the proposal she got, instead of the one she wanted.
How would you deal with this?
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