He Told His Girlfriend She Should Get A Boob Job But Now He’s Asking The Internet If He Shouldn’t Have Said That
A 26-year-old man began dating his 24-year-old girlfriend Lissa around 10 months ago. Things between him and Lissa started out slow and gradually progressed into a serious relationship, however, they have not told one another that they’re in love yet.
“Early in our relationship we developed a very weird dynamic when she wanted a compliment, she would say something bad about herself and I then would tell her she’s beautiful and that there’s nothing wrong with her,” he explained.
For instance, if she was upset about how her hair looked, he would compliment her on it. So, he’s constantly reassuring her about how she looks pretty much.
A few weeks ago, Lissa came over to his house, and she ended up finding a photo of him hugging his ex-girlfriend inside of a notebook.
He honestly forgot he even had that photo, and it’s not like he was hanging onto it intentionally. Despite that, Lissa was furious.
She accused him of still caring for his ex, which he denied as he tossed the photo in the garbage.
Lissa continued to be mad at him and then started making ridiculous comments out of nowhere about how his ex had big boobs and he definitely was missing that.
While ex was bigger chested than Lissa, to be frank, that’s not something he cares about at all.
“Anyway after this incident, she would constantly say she “wished she had bigger boobs” so that she could make me happy,” he said.
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When Lissa would say these things he’d shut it down by pointing out that he likes how she already is and wouldn’t change a thing.
Well, Lissa has been saying these things every single day since finding the photo of his ex, and sometimes more frequently than that.
Yesterday he felt like he was at the end of his rope, and after Lissa started in on the size of her boobs, he replied that if it was such a big deal then maybe it was time for her to get a boob job.
As soon as those words left his mouth, Lissa had nothing to say. She then just walked out of his house and has not called or texted him back.
He really only said what he said because he was beyond frustrated, but now he isn’t sure that was the right way to handle things with Lissa.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“You gave her the response she wanted and she was looking for a fight. Insecure people are exhausting. It’s not your role to fix her.”
“…Asking for a compliment by criticizing yourself is SUPER unhealthy, both for herself and for your relationship. You should never have accepted it or played along, and it’s time for you to stop now.”
“If you really care about her, get her into therapy. If she won’t go, run.”
“It definitely wasn’t the response she wanted, but it was the outcome she was afraid of and she couldn’t help but push until she got it.”
“Basically you rightfully blew up, just in the wrong way. Instead of blowing up and giving into her sob story, you should have channeled your frustrations into telling her to fix the real problem which is her constant need for reassurance. She sounds pretty high maintenance and not everyone is cut out for that.”
“She kept pestering you and I’m not sure what she was expecting. You didn’t tell her she was unattractive, you told her that if she was going to keep complaining, she should just get one.”
“Plus, your whole dynamic sounds kinda weird, she seems manipulative. I’m not sure if you guys would have been great together anyway.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say about all this here.
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