Her Male Roommate Wore Her Underwear While She Was Away And She’s Asking The Internet How To Handle This Situation
A 23-year-old woman lives with her 25-year-old boyfriend Charlie and their male roommate, 29-year-old Taylor.
She and Taylor met at work and became fast friends, bonding over the fact that they have both survived some trauma in their lives.
Although all three of them are friends, she admits she’s closer to Taylor than her boyfriend because of the similarities they initially bonded over.
Recently, she and Charlie decided to take a little weekend trip, leaving Taylor home alone. Taylor offered to take care of their dog while they were out of town.
“Charlie and I have a security camera in our bedroom,” she explained. “This camera is aimed at the bedroom door and bathroom door (we have a bathroom attached to our room).”
“Minutes after we left, we got a notification that there was motion in our room. We checked the cameras and saw Taylor just standing in our room.”
The camera then caught Taylor entering and exiting their bedroom around 7 times in just 30 minutes.
She was shocked because she and Charlie really do value their privacy and never go into Taylor’s room unless they ask and he says it is alright.
Up until this point, Taylor has never gone into their bedroom without giving them the same courtesy and respect back.
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Yet here Taylor was on camera, walking into and out of their room and he never asked their permission to do this.
“The 8th time he went into our room we saw him go over to my dresser and dig through my panty drawer,” she continued.
“He picked out a pair of panties, pulled down his boxers and pants, put my panties on, and then put his boxers and pants back on over it.”
Taylor then came back, put on one of her tank tops, and saw the camera in their room. He left, but then walked in and went back through her panty drawer.
He spent the rest of the day walking back and forth from their bedroom and continued digging through her underwear, and she does have all of this on camera.
“Seeing how he invaded our privacy and wore my underwear made me feel sick and needs to be addressed,” she said.
“We don’t want to make Taylor feel ashamed for cross-dressing, but what he did with MY clothing was disgusting.”
She mentioned that Charlie was going to put a deadbolt on their bedroom door as soon as they get back from their trip.
Additionally, she’s going to just toss all of her underwear into the trash after what she saw.
She and Charlie are not planning on addressing what happened with Taylor until they come home, but the problem is she is not sure if it’s alright to ask him for 2 things.
She wants Taylor to not only pay to buy her entirely new underwear, but she also wants him to pay for the cost of the deadbolt they now need to ensure their privacy.
She’s struggling with if asking Taylor for this is the right thing.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“That’s so gross and an invasion of privacy. It’s great he wants to crossdress, but he surely can do it without pawing through your underwear drawer.”
“Crossdressing is one thing, raiding your panty draw and invading your privacy is another. When you talk to him, make sure to lead with that you support people of that lifestyle and if that’s what he was doing, then he needs to buy his own clothes for it.”
“I’d make him pay for the panties, deadbolt, and tell him that he’s out when the lease is up. I wouldn’t stand for that level of disrespect. It has nothing to do with his identity, only the invasion.”
“Even if Taylor were a woman this would be a violation. Taylor invaded your privacy and wore your intimates. Bye Taylor.”
“And forget the deadbolt, give this creep an eviction notice. Problems or not, rummaging through your underwear and trying them on isn’t a red flag as much as it is a red fireworks show.”
“Also, I can’t help but wonder… is this the first time he’s gone through your panty drawer and worn your panties?”
“Or is this a ritual he has when you’re out of the house? Does he wash them before putting them back, or does he take them off himself and drop them back in the drawer dirty?”
“If I were you, I’d be so freaked out I wouldn’t even be able to wear the panties I’d packed. I’d run to target, buy some new panties, and wash them in the sink, or go commando for the rest of the weekend.”
“…I think you should reconsider this living situation as a whole, instead of just installing a deadbolt. Do you really think you can share space with someone who would violate your privacy like that?”
“Think hard about whether you would ever be able to feel comfortable in your home with him as a roommate.”
“If the end result will be asking him to move out, the cost of the underwear can be part of the moving-out negotiation agreement (like when you’re talking about security deposits/last months rent, etc) and not just a discrete transaction after which you’ll all keep living together as usual.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.
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