Her Roommate Revealed An Embarrassing Secret Of Hers To Her Crush So She’s Asking The Internet If It’s Wrong To Ask To Change To A New Roomie
An 18-year-old girl is currently a college freshman, and for the most part, she’s loved her whole experience…up until recently.
One thing she really enjoys is the social life and all of the parties she can go to. She learned not that long ago that every time she drinks, she ends up wetting her bed.
“It’s really humiliating for me and makes me super self-conscious,” she explained. “It’s not as though I blackout, it’s something about alcohol that ruins my bladder control as I sleep.”
She’s wet the bed approximately 5 times now since she arrived at college this year, and at one point, her roommate saw her hiding what had happened.
She pleaded with her roomie not to tell a single soul about her bed-wetting, and this girl agreed she wouldn’t share this embarrassing secret of hers with anyone.
Apparently, her roomie just couldn’t keep her secret though, and when she was at dinner with a few friends a couple of days ago, one of the guys there cracked a joke about her wetting the bed.
“I’ve never been more embarrassed in my life,” she said. “I sobbed for hours knowing that my whole friend group knows about my problem.”
Well, it had to have been her roomie that shared her secret, because nobody else knows about her bedwetting except this girl.
She was furious to know that she was outed after this girl promised not to tell anyone. She was so hurt that she went home last weekend to see her mom.
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When she was back home, she placed a request to get a new roomie since she knows she can’t get past this.
Her roomie learned about the request and has since texted her around 100 times accusing her of blowing things out of proportion.
“I think I’m right to never want to talk to her again she humiliated me in front of my friends including the boy she knows I have a crush on,” she concluded, though she’s wondering if it’s wrong of her to want to change roomies.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“The fact that this is just you being unable to hold your liquor, knowing that, and drinking too much anyway makes you less sympathetic here.”
“Doing things that you know will make you pee the bed in a shared space with other people is pretty gross and inconsiderate too. If you’re drinking to the point of peeing yourself, you’re probably partying pretty hard.”
“This, along with you saying you “love the party scene” means you probably are just getting wasted, despite your claims that “you don’t even blackout!”, which isn’t saying much by the way. Everyone has a few too many sometimes, but regularly doing stupid stuff while trashed gets annoying pretty quick.”
“Dude I HAD this exact kind of roommate my freshman year, who was notorious for wetting the bed- and let me tell you it was MISERABLE being the one to share a closet-sized room with this person.”
“If it had been bc of a medical issue I’d have been completely sympathetic (albeit still annoyed for not going to the doctor to seek treatment for said problem) but no, it was preventable, bc it only happened when she would drink.”
“Once, twice, whatever s*** happens especially when you just enter college and you’re figuring it out and new to the scene. But FIVE times?”
“I think roommate will also be happy to get a roommate change as well so it’ll work out for everyone.”
“My son still wets the bed occasionally, and you can absolutely tell as soon as you walk in the room. Your roommate is probably tired of living in a space that smells like pee.”
“And you say it’s happened five times since you started college? Girl, it is the beginning of NOVEMBER. So in, what, three months you’ve peed the bed five times.”
“Wear Depends to bed or learn your limits and stop getting so trashed you pee yourself.”
“Yeah, it’s one thing to ask a roommate to keep a secret about an embarrassing accident that was outside your control.”
“But to ask her to not tell anyone that her roommate CHOOSES to wet the bed? That she’s living in a room that reeks of urine because her roommate has decided that wetting the bed is better than not drinking?”
“I think that’s WAY too much to expect from anyone. (Besides, maybe the roommate was drunk when she told. If you can’t control your bladder when drunk, why should she be expected to control her mouth?).”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to him here.
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