She Just Revealed To Her Husband That She Was Not Happy On Their Wedding Day And Now He’s Upset With Her
A 30-year-old woman has been with her husband for 7 years, and they tied the knot 4 years ago. She is quite happy being married to him, and she loved their life and children.
When her husband asked her to marry him, she was happy. On their honeymoon trip, she was happy.
But on the actual day of her wedding? She was anything but happy because it was not at all what she wanted or expected.
Just months after she and her husband got engaged, they learned that her husband’s grandma had cancer.
They knew that their wedding would be the final family-filled event she would get to survive to see, and so, they moved up their wedding day to make sure she was going to be alive to enjoy it.
“Of course, I felt sad and was more than willing to change the date of the wedding to better suit her needs, but what I was not expecting was that it would become HER wedding and I was to be treated like a figure on a playset,” she explained.
“She picked out the venue, the color scheme, the food, music, the flowers, and even my dress.”
Initially, it wasn’t like that, and grandma really only made small suggestions. As she became more vocal about not wanting to do everything the way grandma wanted, everyone in the family accused her of being a terrible person.
“…I was called a heartless bridezilla who couldn’t honor a dying woman’s request,” she said.
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“After a fight, my husband was told to reconsider the engagement if I couldn’t do this “one thing” and how a wedding was more important to me than actually becoming a part of the family.”
“Knowing that I’d never win, I sat in my car and cried for an hour mourning the loss of the wedding I wanted and in the end let the in-laws have their way. I didn’t even attend further meetings to discuss the planning and left both the Bridal Shower and Bachelorette party early.”
The day of her wedding arrived, and she sucked it all up. She pretended she wasn’t extremely disappointed, and that was that.
Grandma ended up passing away several months after their honeymoon, and before she did, she gushed about how the wedding made her so happy.
And so, she never said a word to her husband about how it was anything but that for her; in fact, it was not a joyful day for her at all.
4 years have since gone by, with her husband none the wiser to her true feelings.
That all changed when her cousin got engaged and invited her to be the maid of honor. She was so excited, and she’s been chatting with her cousin through Zoom and over phone calls to help plan everything.
Her husband made a comment to her about how she was not like that for their own wedding, and she ignored it.
She continued helping her cousin plan and would make sure to not really do it while her husband was around.
Despite her attempts to prevent her husband from commenting further, he kept bringing things up about their own wedding, like the fact that she doesn’t display their wedding photos around their house.
Her husband also brought up the fact that she immediately rid herself of her wedding dress following their wedding.
He also commented on the fact that she went to weddings after their own and seemed to have a much better time at those.
“He wouldn’t let up and eventually we got into a fight where I finally confessed that while I love him I hated our wedding,” she continued.
Following that confession, her husband hasn’t said a word to her, and he’s extremely upset.
How would you deal with this?
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