After Her Coworker’s Wedding Got Called Off, Her Coworker Accused Her Of Ruining Her Life And Being The Reason Why There’s No Longer Going To Be A Wedding
A 28-year-old woman has a job working at a sports bar in her town. One of her coworkers is a 25-year-old woman named Amanda, who began dating one of the guys who frequents the bar; Nick.
Amanda and Nick started dating about two years ago, and after several months of being in a relationship, Amanda found out that she was pregnant.
Nick was quick to propose to Amanda after news of the baby hit.
“The baby is now 6 months old, and Amanda has two other kids- a 5-year-old and a 3-year-old- each from a different father as well,” she explained.
“Nick was planning to adopt both of them after the wedding, as both other dads basically refuse to be in the picture and are willing to give up parental rights.”
“Amanda and Nick were supposed to be getting married in two weeks. However, about a week ago, Nick came in on one of my bar shifts and seemed really down.”
“I didn’t pry but made friendly small talk, and after a few beers he told me an alarming confession.”
It turns out, another guy who frequents the bar named Adam sent Nick a message on social media saying that he was sleeping with Amanda at the exact same time that Nick was dating her.
Just before Amanda announced that she was engaged to Nick, she ghosted this guy Adam. Adam was concerned that there was a chance Amanda’s baby was not Nick’s at all and it actually might be his.
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He felt that Nick deserved to know all of this prior to actually walking down the aisle and adopting Amanda’s other children.
“I was stunned and told Nick that Adam is a bit unstable, to begin with, and might be lying out of jealousy as he’d always had a thing for Amanda,” she said.
“I asked if he had confronted Amanda and he said no, and told me he was at a loss as to what to do. I basically said he had two choices- either he loves Amanda and the baby enough to not care, or if he needed to know for sure, an answer was a paternity test away.”
Guess what solution Nick picked? A paternity test. Guess who the father of Amanda’s baby is? Not Nick.
Right after Nick got the results back of the paternity test, he brought them right to Amanda to confront her before calling off their wedding entirely.
This woman then found out through another man that comes into their bar a lot and who is friends with Nick that Amanda confessed to being fully aware that Nick was not the father the entire time.
She simply went through with telling him he was the dad because she was betting on him proposing to her because he’s a good guy who also happens to be well-off.
“Word about the conversation between Nick and I got around, and Amanda has been texting me about how I ruined her life and I had no business butting in,” she continued.
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“She claims if I hadn’t suggested the paternity test, Nick never would have gotten one, and she’d have a husband and a father for her kids.”
“And I feel like she might be right. I absolutely could have minded my own business and told Nick I had no advice for him.”
“And I do feel bad that now she will be struggling with three small children on her own, being a single mother myself.”
How would you deal with this?
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