“In addition to this issue he also does not seem to take on adult responsibilities such as visiting the doctor or dentist and often says he will do things and never does.”
She knows it’s hard to find housing anywhere right now with the way things are, but she’s not sure if that’s the real reason why her boyfriend is still living comfortably at home.
She’s concerned that because she is so independent and has worked so hard to own her own home, that could color her view of the situation and maybe she’s not evaluating things properly.
She does wonder if her boyfriend is weird though for sharing a room with his brother, and she’s not sure if she should end the relationship over this or try to help her boyfriend finally leave the nest.
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