Her Boyfriend Got Drunk And Kissed Another Girl While He Was At A Club
A 24-year-old woman has been dating her 25-year-old boyfriend for close to 5 years now, and they always had very clear boundaries concerning cheating.
She and her boyfriend had agreed to not flirt or dance with anyone else as part of those boundaries.
Several weeks ago, her boyfriend wound up at a club with his friends while she was on a plane back home.
Before she got on the plane, her boyfriend had agreed to get her at the airport the following morning.
Imagine her surprise then when her plane arrived at the airport and her boyfriend was nowhere to be found.
She sent her boyfriend a text, and he claimed that he was wasted from the previous night and could not come to get her.
She definitely was upset, as she had to shell out a lot of money on an Uber ride home.
Several hours after she made it home, her boyfriend sent her a message saying that he needed to tell her something.
“He said that he danced with another girl at the club the previous night and kissed her,” she explained. “I was shocked and in denial because honestly, our relationship has been going well. We hit a pretty good patch recently IMO.”
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“When I asked him why he said he was drunk and “being a pig”. He said it was not my fault at all and he agreed that our relationship had been going really well lately.”
“I was crying and inconsolable, and felt so ashamed I couldn’t really bear to tell any of my friends or family.”
“This is what he told me about the event: he was extremely drunk and started grinding with another girl that he was at a pregame with.”
“He did not know her prior to that night, but we have some mutual friends with her. He had talked with her a little bit at the pregame (not 1-on-1) and they started grinding at the club for a minute or two.”
“Then he kissed her for 2 seconds (he said it was a “mutual” kiss, whatever that means) before he realized it and pulled away.”
So many of her boyfriend’s friends witnessed him kiss this other girl. After the incident, her boyfriend talked to one of his close friends about what had happened, and her boyfriend’s friend insisted that he needed to come clean to her.
Her boyfriend claims that when he was kissing this other girl, he just completely forgot about her for those moments and that he was so drunk that he blacked out.
Her issue with this is that the text messages he sent her all night didn’t indicate that he had a lot to drink at all.
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There were no spelling issues, and there was nothing to prove that he was completely wasted, so she’s sick of his drunk excuse.
It’s now been an entire month after this incident, and she knows she has been anything but emotionally stable in that time period.
“I started feeling extremely depressed a few days after he told me,” she said. “As a 24 yo, most of my girlfriends are in happy, loving, and committed relationships.”
“I thought I was in one too. I started feeling angry at him for being immature, supposedly “forgetting” about me and our 5-year relationship (according to him…I don’t believe this for a second.”
She’s upset that her boyfriend disrespected her like that, and she’s upset that his friends witnessed this because they have never been that nice to her and this just makes it all worse.
She’s angry, and she’s been having awful nightmares about her boyfriend in the aftermath. She’s feeling so confused because she and her boyfriend did talk a lot about getting married and what their future together would be like, so she’s not sure how they got here.
She feels humiliated, she feels ugly, she feels worthless; and she knows they’re going to run into the girl that her boyfriend kissed again since this girl is in his friend circle.
“It feels like the past 5 years of my life have been a huge lie,” she continued. “I feel the most depressed I have ever felt in a really long time, possibly ever.”
“Even before this happened, I was mildly depressed, kind of having a quarter-life crisis.”
“I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my future and thought my bf was the best thing in my life, the one rock I could hold onto while I was unsure about my future career, social life, etc.”
She certainly doesn’t trust her boyfriend anymore, and everything good that they had she feels is out the window.
She also knows that her boyfriend’s friends have been talking about him kissing that other girl, which only makes her feel more awful about everything.
She has sat down with her boyfriend to discuss what needs to be different from here on out, but she isn’t sure how to fix things and move forward from here.
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