She Found Out That Her Boyfriend Has Been Texting His Ex So Now She’s Spending Christmas Eve Crying
A 26-year-old woman has been dating her 29-year-old boyfriend for approximately 2 years, and the major problem in their relationship is her boyfriend’s ex.
Her boyfriend was with his ex for one year before they broke up and she began dating him.
Her boyfriend was friends with his ex for quite a while previous to dating her, and they went back to being friends after the breakup, which makes her anxious.
“According to him he broke up with her because he just never felt strongly enough about her past friendship,” she explained.
“In the past I have seen her name come up on his phone multiple times but the communication truly did seem one-sided with her being the one who was reaching out and him only answering sometimes.”
Well, yesterday evening she was at her boyfriend’s house to sleep over, and as her boyfriend was asleep, she could see that his ex texted him.
She read the message on her boyfriend’s phone, and it genuinely seemed to her like her boyfriend’s ex was flirting with him.
“I honestly kind of panicked and I woke him up and asked him what it was about and he automatically got defensive,” she explained.
“This caused me to panic more and I asked him multiple times to show me the messages and he refused and kept repeating that he needed to go back to sleep.”
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“After the back-and-forth of his defensiveness building and my panic building he eventually showed me the messages.”
Well, his ex texted him to say that she had a steamy dream about him. Her boyfriend didn’t exactly reply back to that, but he did keep talking to his ex.
Her boyfriend then texted his ex to ask when she could be his waitress over at the restaurant where she is employed.
She looked further through her boyfriend’s texts with his ex, and she also noticed that he messaged his ex a selfie of himself that he snapped back when he was in a relationship with her.
Eventually, her boyfriend apologized and acknowledged that what he did wasn’t right, but that didn’t help her feel better one bit.
She let her boyfriend know that it wasn’t alright with her that he was talking to his ex at all, and it’s highly disrespectful.
At the end of their conversation, her boyfriend tried to fix things by suggesting that he text his ex and let her know they couldn’t talk anymore.
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“I have spent the majority of Christmas Eve crying because I just feel betrayed and I feel silly for having trusted him all of this time,” she said.
“I can’t help but to sit here and wonder how many other conversations they had of this nature even though he swears this was the only one.”
“He went out today and bought me a bunch of extra Christmas presents and it just feels like bull… and overcompensating in the wrong way.”
She’s wondering where she should go from here, and she’s strongly considering reaching out to her boyfriend’s ex’s current boyfriend to let this guy know what she has been up to.
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