She Found Out That Her Fiancé Lied To Her About Many Things And Had A Secret Relationship On The Side: Then He Just Disappeared
One woman who was engaged to her fiancé recently learned that he lied to her about many things, and had a secret relationship on the side. Then, he up and disappeared right out of her life.
The couple had been together for four years, but the last year together had been incredibly challenging.
They had even broken up, one of them had moved out, and then they’d gotten back together a few times.
She surprised him with a trip to Disney for their fourth anniversary. But, shockingly, she found out days later that he’d been in another relationship for over six months.
She confronted him, and he owned his mistake. They agreed to keep trying to work things out.
She shared her perspective on trying again. “For me, I figured since we were engaged to be married that I would handle the situation as if we were already married. What would a wife do? Especially when divorce wouldn’t be the first option.”
But then things took a turn for the worse. He told her he’d checked into a mental health facility and would be there for at least a week.
“Each day he’d call me or text me that he loved me and we were going to go to counseling.”
But things got even stranger when they were supposed to see each other again. He began blocking her calls and texts and completely disappeared.
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There had been no warning signs, nothing to suggest that he wanted out of their relationship for good.
Confused, she went to his mom’s house to check in on him. But his mom thought they’d broken up a long time ago.
And the shocks continued.
“He was dating this other girl and he was never in the facility at all,” she said. “Instead, he had a huge falling out with his roommate and him and this girl were kicked out of the house.”
“He told his mother that the trip to Disney was his plan and he went alone so he didn’t waste it, although it was a lie.”
Since then, she’s been in a state of absolute shock and betrayal. Though friends were begging her to move on from everything, she still couldn’t process why things happened the way they did. And moving on felt nearly impossible.
“How do you turn off feelings for a 4-year relationship that, although it had its problems, always chose to keep trying?” she asked.
“How do you turn your back on someone you thought was the person you were planning on spending your life with?”
He was still treating her and his mom with radio silence, but she couldn’t get over the unanswered questions.
Why had he led her on? Why had the last thing he’d said to her been “I love you?”
Ultimately, she was left feeling abandoned and worthless. She’s wondering if she should continue looking for him or if she should leave it and try to move on.
How would you handle this?
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