She Just Learned That Her Boyfriend Is Paying For A Professional Cuddling Service And She Thinks This Is Cheating
A 25-year-old woman has been dating her 24-year-old boyfriend for about 3 months now. She thinks he’s really an amazing, loving, and kind boyfriend, but he recently did something that she has a major problem with.
At the beginning of their relationship, she told her boyfriend that she wanted to go slow with everything; from kissing to sleeping together, to saying I love you.
She has already been in a few awful relationships that she believes got bad because she was far too attached to the other person from the get-go.
She thinks if she had gone slower and had not fallen so fast for those individuals, she would not have gotten so hurt in the end.
That’s the reasoning for her wanting to go slow with her current boyfriend, and she hasn’t gotten to a point with him yet where she feels like she can be intimate with him.
Now, her boyfriend isn’t ok with that, and he told her that he felt her that she hasn’t yet really kissed him or said that she loves him.
“He felt like what he did for me didn’t matter,” she said. “I explained to him that I loved him and that I just needed more time to get comfortable with the relationship and I’ll give him everything he needs in a relationship.”
“But the one thing he’s been begging me for is cuddle sessions. Now I don’t mind cuddling but he wants me to hold him most of the time and rest his head on my chest like bury his face in my boobs.”
“I hated this idea because it was too intimate for me and I wasn’t comfortable with this.”
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She explained to her boyfriend that she did need some more time to feel comfortable with this, yet he continued to ask her to do this.
Not that long ago, she asked her boyfriend to use his phone since hers was out of battery. She used his phone to make a call and then spotted an email her boyfriend got.
It was from a professional cuddling service.
“I opened the email and read through it,” she revealed. “Apparently, he had a full profile and had been meeting up with a professional cuddler for the past 2 weeks every other day.”
“I confronted him about this and told him that this was not ok for him to do. He explained to me that if I wasn’t going to cuddle him then he needed to be held by someone.”
He maintained that since he was not kissing these women or sleeping with them, he didn’t think it was an issue at all.
“He needed to be cuddled by someone and he explained that we were gonna lose it if he had to wait another month before he could be held properly,” she continued.
“I told him I wasn’t comfortable with him doing this and that I considered this cheating.”
Her boyfriend became upset and insisted that he really needed the cuddling since he has not been feeling loved at all.
She wants him to wait more for her to be comfortable to move forward with being more physical, and in the meantime, she wants him to stop using the professional cuddling service.
Right now, their relationship is not in the best place and she’s not sure what to do.
How would you handle this?
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