She Asked Her Best Friend Who Is Getting Married To Make Sure One Of Her Ex-Friends Doesn’t Get An Invite, But The Bride Is Still Inviting This Woman

A 27-year-old woman has a best friend named Sarah who is getting married in 2024. Sarah also asked her to be one of her bridesmaids, so she’s now part of the bridal party.

She and Sarah have a friend named Becky, and the three of them used to be very close back in high school.

She also used to be Becky’s best friend, but when they went to college, Becky decided to sleep with her boyfriend several times.

“I only found out because a mutual friend heard that Becky had STDs, so they told me everything to make sure that I got tested,” she explained.

“Thankfully I was clear, but was devastated by the betrayal. Becky my “best friend” was not only sleeping with my boyfriend but could have given me diseases with some potential complications had I not had treatment early, and yet she still wouldn’t tell me.”

“Bizarrely Becky never acknowledged what she had done and transferred schools, so I never got to ask her anything about what had happened.”

After Becky’s cheating incident, all of their friends stopped talking to Becky. She also stopped talking to Becky, and dumped her boyfriend, and although this was years ago she still has not said anything to Becky.

As for her friendship history with Sarah, they stopped being close in college, but they got back into one another’s lives shortly after that and have been besties ever since.

“She means the absolute world to me,” she said about Sarah. “Sarah has been experiencing some pretty horrific health problems that have severely impacted her life.”

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“I try my best to support her, I am truly in awe of how she deals with everything. She is pretty open about these health issues on social media, which is where Becky re enters the picture.”

Well, in the last few years, Becky has sent Sarah flowers in an effort to support her through her health problems.

Becky also comments on Sarah’s posts on social media to be supportive as well.

Anytime that Sarah has since brought Becky up, she has made it crystal clear to Sarah how she still feels about her, and it’s not good.

Not that long ago, Sarah started completing the guest list for her upcoming wedding since she’s about to send out her invitations.

“I have been super involved and I’m so excited to be a bridesmaid,” she continued. “She sent me a short text saying that she is inviting Becky.”

“I was shocked that Sarah would think to invite Becky considering our history, and that they speak once every few months so are acquaintances at most.”

She did speak to Sarah to see if she would un-invite Becky, that way she can ensure she has fun at Sarah’s wedding.

“I just know the moment I see Becky I am going to be overwhelmed with emotions, probably because I never had closure on the topic,” she wrote.

The friends that she shares with Sarah know that she asked Sarah to un-invite Becky, and they think that she is causing problems and should deal for Sarah’s sake.

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Her friends also think at this point in her life she needs to put the past in the past and move on from what happened with Becky back in college.

She really, really does not want Sarah to invite Becky though to her wedding, but she did let Sarah know she’s going to be at the wedding regardless of Becky being there.

What do you think about this situation?

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