Her Boyfriend Has Been Secretly Sending Nudes Of Her To One Of His Female Friends And His Reason Is He Hopes This Friend Will Want To Sleep With Them
A major ground rule for a romantic relationship is making sure that you’re on the same page, especially when it comes to your intimate life.
Well, one 26-year-old woman’s boyfriend seems to have completely missed that memo.
This poor woman woke up this morning to a text message from one of her boyfriend’s female friends asking her if she knew what her boyfriend had sent to her.
She was completely taken aback by this text, as she had absolutely no idea what this friend of her boyfriend was talking about.
This friend quickly clued her in. Yesterday night, her boyfriend had sent his friend naked photos of her.
Her boyfriend then asked his friend if she wanted videos of the two of them in bed, before asking if this friend could sleep over.
He ended their exchange by asking his friend to send her own nudes to him.
“I’m very hurt and upset that he’s been sending images of me behind my back probably most of all,” she explained.
“Also the fact that this was a childhood friend of his that was supposed to be platonic and doesn’t seem that way if he messages her like that.”
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She did let her boyfriend know that she is bi, and he did question her many months ago on if she would be interested in sleeping with another woman and him, which she made clear was not high on her list of priorities.
So, she was shocked to learn that her boyfriend was secretly trying to arrange this without her consent.
“I don’t feel like I can trust him anymore since to me it seems like he’s just been using this narrative as an excuse to message other women sexually and exchange pictures without my knowledge,” she said.
“And I have the impression he’s done it before reflecting on some conversations.”
Two weeks before this all happened, she moved into an apartment with her boyfriend and she’s locked into a year-long lease with him.
She knows in her heart she needs to walk away from her boyfriend and dump him, but the fact that they live together complicates things.
She also does not have any family members or friends that live close to where she does and on top of that, she would hate to inconvenience any of them by asking to stay at their place for several days.
How do you think she should deal with this situation, and her boyfriend?
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