Her Boyfriend Took Her Engagement Ring Shopping, Then Dumped Her Because He’s No Longer In Love With Her: He’s Since Been Sobbing Nonstop And She’s Wondering If They Have A Chance Of Making Things Work
A 30-year-old woman dated her 34-year-old boyfriend for 3 years, but he recently ended things with her in a super harsh way.
Several months ago she suspected something was up because he was no longer being as affectionate with her.
She truly believed he must have fallen out of love with her, and although she asked him point-blank if that was the problem, he denied it all the way while calling her crazy for daring to think such a thing.
“For the past seven months we had been discussing marriage and engagement rings and I was really getting excited,” she explained.
“I thought that he was actually in romantic love with me and that the disconnect was coming from me.”
“But then he broke my heart. He told me he knew he was never going to buy me an engagement ring and I was shattered!”
Additionally, her boyfriend revealed that he’s known since the beginning of their relationship that she was not “the one” yet he continued anyway and seriously strung her along.
While she did value him being honest with her, she was devastated to hear the truth come out of his mouth.
Prior to getting romantically involved with her boyfriend, they had a wonderful friendship and she considered him to be her best friend.
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It’s now been 5 days since her boyfriend dumped her, and he’s still living under the same roof as her while basically crying nonstop.
The first evening they split up, she moved into a separate room, and he fell asleep in there with her as he held her hand.
Although she’s stopped crying over the end of their relationship, he has not stopped at all.
She does realize that she also thought at the beginning of their relationship that he wasn’t exactly “the one” for her either, but she loved being with him and she adores his family so she kept going too.
“And I want all of that back!” she exclaimed. “Is there a way for the both of us to become “the one” for each other?”
“I feel deep down that we are fixable and capable of actually falling in love with each other. We are so compatible and I feel so safe with him.”
“I still love him and I want the life we planned. I’m just lost right now because I’m still in complete shock that it is over.”
“I thought he was the man I was going to spend my life with, we talked about it often.”
She’s wondering if there’s any way they can get back together and if there’s any chance of making this work with him. Do you think this is all over for good, or do you think they can be together forever, happily?
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