She’s Sleeping With A Man That She Knows Is Married, Yet He Says All The Perfect Things To Convince Her Their Relationship Isn’t Wrong
A 26-year-old says she’s the type of woman who always does her best when it comes down to doing “the right thing” and if she ever gets caught up in a harmless untruth, it makes her feel guilty.
She tries her hardest to be honest and positive no matter what, though many of the people who are closest to her think she’s just innocent and gullible.
Recently, she chose to be single for a number of months in order to heal from the trauma that she experienced in her past, in addition to dealing with the loss of one of her parents just a year ago.
Not that long ago, she began returning to work in an office, and many of the friends that she has in the new city where she lives are from her job.
She and her work friends have since been meeting up to grab drinks when work is done, and through those drink meet-ups, she met a man who happens to also work at her company.
She started getting close to this mystery man, whom she figured only wanted to be her friend. Things progressed after they grabbed drinks together one evening, and they wound up making out.
“This past week, we went to drinks with a few other colleagues,” she explained. “I introduced him to a few he didn’t know and one of them revealed that she already knew him because she had been to his wedding last year as a guest of the bride (they come from the same town).”
“Obviously, I was shocked and it was a bit awkward as he tried to brush it off.”
As the night wound down and their coworkers went home, they were left all alone. She finally confronted him about being married, though he would not give her a reply on if he was or was not.
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He tried to say it didn’t matter if let her know that he was married since she will only stop seeing him.
Now she knows he’s married, regardless of him not wanting to admit it to her out loud, but that hasn’t stopped her from hooking up with him.
Eventually, he did reveal to her that he and his wife have “hectic marital problems.” She can’t exactly stop seeing him though.
“He treats me better than my exes and he drives a nice car and wants to take me on vacations,” she said.
“I’m disgusted with myself too. I try to talk to him about my reservations because I don’t want to hurt anyone but he always knows the right things to say.”
“He somehow finds his way around all my attempts to distance myself from him. A big and toxic part of my personality is that I’m a chronic people pleaser and I hate conflict, I don’t want to make him upset so I go along with things. How weak and pathetic.”
Two days ago she was intimate with him while they were in his car. She’s left feeling that she doesn’t want to hurt this guy, yet she also doesn’t want to hurt his wife.
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