Her Friend Asked Her To Be A Bridesmaid But Then Kicked Her Out Of The Wedding Party For Being Too Attractive
One young woman was invited to be a bridesmaid in her friend’s wedding that’s happening in a month, but now that’s no longer happening.
She met this friend of hers more than a decade ago, and they spent high school and college with one another.
She has been through so much with her friend, and she even was with her friend on the evening her friend met the man she will be marrying.
This past weekend, she met up with her friend and the other woman her friend invited to be bridesmaids so they could go through getting a trial run of makeup and hair for the wedding.
“When we got there, my friend told me that I would be last in the lineup and it’s possible the consultants would run out of time, so I should be prepared to do my own hair and make-up if need be,” she explained.
“I thought that was odd but agreed. Then, during my time with the consultants, my friend was critical of their suggestions in a way she had not been with the other girls.”
“She twice told one consultant not to use much makeup on me, and told the other that she wanted my hair to look just “simple and flat.”
Anytime she tried to make a recommendation, her friend did not want to hear what she had to say, yet her friend was all ears when the other bridesmaids made their opinions known.
She sat there and watched as every other woman got to have a “full glam” look, while she was excluded from the same level of hair and makeup.
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She didn’t say anything right then and there, but she did later approach the maid of honor (and this woman also happens to be the sister of the bride) if it seemed that her friend was acting…weird.
Well, the maid of honor revealed to her that her friend is incredibly “insecure” about her looking more gorgeous at her wedding and so her friend is making every effort to ugly her up so as not to be outshined.
She was quite surprised to have this new information, as she never guessed that her friend was feeling this way, though maybe she should have gotten the hint when her friend wanted to switch out her bridesmaid dress last minute for something that covered her up more.
“Here’s the deal, I am hot,” she said. “I know that sounds conceited but it’s the truth. I modeled through college to pay my tuition, and since graduation have been living in LA and supporting myself in the industry.”
“I’ve appeared in a few national campaigns for fashion and beauty brands, and appeared on a few magazine covers and spreads.”
“Armed with this information and these examples, I confronted the bride in a phone call yesterday.”
Her friend just would not admit that she was insecure, and her friend tried to manipulate the situation by insisting she was being dramatic, stuck-up, and controlling.
Her friend continued to say that she clearly needed to do anything possible to maintain power over how she was going to look at the wedding.
She didn’t let her friend walk all over her like that, and they got into the largest argument of their lives.
In the end, her friend kicked her out of the wedding party even though there are only 4 weeks left before the big day.
She’s struggling with whether she did do the right thing in confronting her friend so soon before the wedding, or if she should have stayed quiet about this.
What do you think?
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