This Hospice Nurse Discussed The Most Common Regrets She Hears From Patients Before They Pass

Death is the most commonly feared experience around the globe, and many wonder how to feel at peace once the time finally comes.

A hospice nurse named Julie has gained tremendous popularity on TikTok for educating the general public about death and dying.

Still, one of the most commonly asked questions among her followers is what kind of regrets she hears from passing patients.

Recently, Julie made a video response to this and discussed “how to not have regrets at the end of your life.”

“Most people at the end of their life have regrets about not appreciating their health and not appreciating being alive. It’s the little things, like working their life away and not spending more time with family,” Julie explained.

She does disclose that her list is very generalized and vague. Nonetheless, these are the most common regrets that Julie personally hears on a day-to-day basis.

Some might imagine that working as a hospice nurse may get very depressing. But, Julie uses her work experiences to learn lessons and allows these lessons to inform how she lives her life.

“These tell me to be more in the moment, live presently, be grateful, and recognize the little things about living life. Do not work your life away if you do not have to and spend time with those you love. Not necessarily family, but those you love and who make you feel loved,” Julie said.

TikTok; pictured above is Julie in her video

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Julie has undoubtedly comforted her followers by sharing her experience as a hospice nurse and giving unparalleled life advice to the TikTok community.

“This is so true,” wrote one user.

“Thank you, I needed to hear this,” commented a second user.

“Your videos have given me so much peace since my mom passed. And so much appreciation for her hospice nurse. Thank you,” added a third.

On a day-to-day basis, a walk with your dog or a night out with friends may feel like isolated experiences. But, as Julie mentioned, these “little things” add up and create the fabric of your life story.

To start enjoying your life and showing more gratitude, take it day by day. You can aim to do at least one thing that makes you personally happy and even keep a daily journal.

Like one user commented on Julie’s video, “At the end, you never regret the things you have done. You regret what you did not do when you had the chance.”

To hear more from Julie about her profession and end-of-life experiences, visit her TikTok account here.

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Katharina Buczek graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in Journalism and a minor in Digital Arts. Specializing ... More about Katharina Buczek

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