He Asked A Girl Out On A Date After Matching With Her Through A Dating App Yet He Refused To Pay For Her When The Check Came
A 26-year-old guy matched with a 24-year-old girl named Kyla through a dating app that they both were using, and they proceeded to send a couple of messages back and forth.
Things kind of fizzled out before they could even really get started though, and they quickly stopped talking to one another on the app.
Several months after matching with Kyla on the app, he ran into her at a wedding. He was friends with the bride and groom, and so was Kyla.
He did chat a lot with Kyla that evening at the wedding, and he really thought they hit it off. He decided to ask the bride and groom for Kyla’s number later on, and he got it.
He spent the next weeks after the wedding texting with Kyla and then asked her out on a date. They were planning to grab drinks and dinner, but at the final moment, Kyla canceled on him.
Just 10 minutes before he was about to meet up with Kyla, she claimed that “something came up” and she would no longer be able to go on the date with him.
He told Kyla it was alright, but in the days that followed, she was dragging her feet texting him back and seemed completely disinterested.
Then, Kyla just stopped replying to him at all and he thought it was best to just keep going with his life and forget about her.
One week after he resolved to do this, Kyla called him up to say sorry, before asking if she could go out on a date with him.
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He said yes, but only after his friend’s wife persuaded him.
So, the night of their date arrives, and everything was off to the worst start. Kyla was not on time, and she insisted traffic was so awful she couldn’t make it there at their agreed-upon time.
“She did apologize for canceling the first date, saying she was nervous,” he explained. “She also had multiple drinks and a shot.”
He sat there and had 2 drinks, and Kyla spent the majority of the date busy on her phone instead of trying to interact with him. It was really hard to talk to Kyla, and it was not a fun date for him at all.
Finally, the check came, and the person who had been tending to them asked how they would be handling payment, and he said he wanted to split the bill.
Kyla stared right at him and claimed to have left her wallet at home, but he fired back that he was not going to pay for her, nor was anything between them going to really work.
“I paid my bill and left while Kyla sat there,” he said. “My friend’s wife calls me that night yelling at me…I guess Kyla’s sister had to come to bring her money.”
A lot of his friends think it was a terrible thing to not pay for Kyla on their date. Do you think he should have footed the bill for her or was he right to get up and call it quits, leaving her stranded?
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