He Went On An Awful First Date With A Woman Who Acted Like It Was Bothersome To Be Out With Him And He Couldn’t Believe She Had A Great Time Since He Didn’t
A man has a former female coworker that has been really invested in attempting to get him to go out on a date with one of her friends.
His former coworker has been at this for some time, and he finally caved and said he would go out on a double date with his former coworker, his former coworker’s fiancé, and this friend of hers.
The date happened about a week ago, and in the days leading up to the date, his former coworker told him that her friend was so very thrilled to get to go on this date with him.
The evening of the date arrived, and he got to the restaurant they agreed to go to at a couple of minutes before their meeting time.
Suddenly, his former coworker phoned him up to say that she could not make it and neither could her fiancé.
His former coworker mentioned that she was positive her friend was still on her way to the restaurant though.
While this might seem fishy and like a ploy to get him to go on a solo date with this friend, his former coworker’s sister is expecting and the whole family thought her baby was coming early.
So, he waited, and then his former coworker’s friend showed up. It was just the two of them for the date that night.
“When I met her a few minutes later, however, she absolutely didn’t look excited to meet me,” he explained about his former coworker’s friend.
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“In fact, she was showing no emotion whatsoever. I tried to engage in conversation with her the whole dinner but as I later told my best friend, “I’ve had much more engaging conversations with your cat. At least he meows back at me when I say something.”
As dinner came to an end, he did not ask this girl for her phone number because he had no interest in going out on a date with her again.
Despite his feelings, he kindly wished her goodbye and thought that was it.
A day after the date, his former coworker wanted to know how it went. She questioned him on why he did not ask her friend for her phone number, since her friend said they had “a great time.”
He couldn’t help but laugh out loud when his coworker said this, before pointing out that he thought this girl “was out of her mind if she thought that was a good time.”
What his former coworker failed to mention was that as they were having their conversation, she had her friend on speakerphone listening in.
The girl didn’t say anything at the moment and stayed silent on the other end of the phone, but now his former coworker expects him to apologize to her and take her out on a second date.
His former coworker insisted that her friend is reserved and takes a bit to open up, so that’s why the conversation didn’t exactly flow on the first date.
He doesn’t think his former coworker is spot on with this as the girl was acting like it was bothersome to be out with him.
It’s not that his former coworker’s friend was shy, which he could have easily dealt with or understood.
“She seemed uninterested in me, as if the date was a tedious chore she was forced to do,” he added.
“Whenever I asked something, she answered in a bored tone, as if me asking things was annoying to her.”
That’s just not a good vibe and he doesn’t think that it’s worth his time to give this girl a second chance.
Do you agree; should he skip on giving her another chance, or should he give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her out on date two?
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