Chip Chick
One time while they were dating, her ex dropped over a thousand dollars taking her and her cousin on a trip to Rhode Island.
Every day throughout their relationship, her ex would stop at a popular coffee shop and purchase a pricey drink that she liked.
“He bought me a ring a promise ring after 2 months, saying, “I knew you would love this, so I had to get it,” and when I went to use his phone for music, he had the receipt pulled up, and it was $900 before tax,” she said.
“The ring was gorgeous. It was. But I asked him already at that point to stop. Expensive dinners, etc.”
“And to make it worse, I KNEW 100% that he couldn’t actually afford this. He was living in his mom’s garage at the time, paying her entire mortgage for her.”
Every time her ex did get her something or pay for her, she felt ashamed, and she did not hide that from him.
Second to the whole money situation, her ex constantly spent time at her house, and it was stifling. She could never have a moment alone.
Pretty recently, her ex revealed to her that even though they have not been in a relationship for 2 years, he does not get why she dumped him in the first place.
She made sure her ex wanted her to be truthful, and after he insisted that he did, she let him know why.
“He just got super quiet and said that most women would love that,” she continued. “And I said, yes, absolutely. Most women would!”
“I mean, c’mon, lots of women love being spoiled, but that’s not me, and he just dismissed that constantly.”
