Her Parents Got Divorced 2 Months Ago Because Her Dad Was Cheating On Her Mom, And Now That He’s Bringing This Other Woman Around, She Does Not Want To Meet Her At All
A 22-year-old girl’s parents ended up getting divorced just 2 months ago, and their divorce was 100% due to her dad.
She and her entire family discovered that her dad had spent the last 5 years cheating on her mom with another woman, and that’s what led to her parents splitting up.
A week ago, her dad decided that he was comfortable enough inviting this other woman (who is now his girlfriend) over to his house.
Although she has moved out of her dad’s house, her little brother still lives there with him.
“I believe he is attempting to begin introducing her to the family, but I have declined any meetings he has tried to set up,” she explained.
“At this point, I have no desire to meet this woman, and frankly, I have no positive feelings towards her.”
“My dad is wanting to arrange a vacation with them, and I told him I’m just not ready to meet her. I know this hurts my dad, but I can’t justify having a relationship with someone who knowingly dated a married man for 5 years.”
She isn’t just upset about this other woman; she’s still upset with her dad, too, for what he did to her mom, and she’s trying her best to get over all of this, but it’s going to take her some time.
While she would like to not see her dad be miserable, he caused her mom so much heartache that she’s not ready to meet his girlfriend at all.
annanahabed – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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Adding insult to injury, leading up to them all finding out about his infidelity, he played the role of the perfect husband all too well.
He snuggled up to her mom on the couch, he took her mom out to get dinner with him. And in the aftermath of their divorce, how he’s treating her mom is leaving them all feeling so confused and upset.
Right now, her dad is constantly reaching out to her mom to “check in on her,” and he’s sending songs to her and acting as if he genuinely messed up.
This is also not helping her want to spend any time with her dad’s new girlfriend.
“The hard thing is he’s been extremely accepting of me denying his requests to meet her, but it seems like he continues to try,” she said.
“He is showing no hostility towards my siblings and me, and I find it so difficult to say no to him. This could also be the result of me being a chronic pushover.”
Do you think she’s obligated to put her feelings aside and try to make nice with her dad’s new girlfriend?
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